Chapter
Common Regrets and Pluralistic Ignorance
43:29 - 47:31 (04:01)
The concept of pluralistic ignorance can limit the ability to navigate and make sense of the world. People who mistreated others often regret their actions years later, with the most common regret being not pursuing their dreams.
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It is a common constraint that prevents us from navigating the world accurately since people might not speak openly about their beliefs fearing they might be perceived as an idiot.
43:29 - 46:22 (02:53)
Summary
It is a common constraint that prevents us from navigating the world accurately since people might not speak openly about their beliefs fearing they might be perceived as an idiot. If you think nobody shares your belief, you might be in for a surprise because they are most likely thinking the same thing due to pluralistic ignorance.
ChapterCommon Regrets and Pluralistic Ignorance
Episode#437 - Daniel H. Pink - How To Overcome Regret
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker expresses surprise at how many people have regrets about having bullied someone in school, despite not having identified as bullies themselves.
46:23 - 47:31 (01:07)
Summary
The speaker expresses surprise at how many people have regrets about having bullied someone in school, despite not having identified as bullies themselves. However, they are heartened by the fact that people who have mistreated others can regret their actions many years later, indicating that they have learned from their mistakes.