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Friend Guarding vs Mate Guarding in Relationships
The concepts of friend guarding and mate guarding have similarities and differences. While the fear of losing the affection of a partner stems from various factors, the fear of losing a friend may be linked to a lack of mutual trust and competitiveness.
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While men have a more cooperative approach to their friendships, women tend to have a more zero sum mentality, competing and striving to appear superior to others in their social circle.
25:04 - 27:48 (02:44)
Summary
While men have a more cooperative approach to their friendships, women tend to have a more zero sum mentality, competing and striving to appear superior to others in their social circle. This can result in being excluded from the group if one appears too competitive.
ChapterFriend Guarding vs Mate Guarding in Relationships
Episode#553 - Dr Jaimie Krems - The Evolutionary Psychology Of Friendship
PodcastModern Wisdom
Mate poachers and friend poachers have different tactics, as mate guarding involves bringing down the perceived mate value of someone who may be slipping away, while friend guarding can be a positive cue for a friendship.
27:48 - 30:47 (02:59)
Summary
Mate poachers and friend poachers have different tactics, as mate guarding involves bringing down the perceived mate value of someone who may be slipping away, while friend guarding can be a positive cue for a friendship.