Chapter
Seeing Your Own Value in Relationships
19:08 - 26:56 (07:48)
The speaker urges listeners to see their own value in relationships and recognize their capabilities even when facing rejection. Doing so can lead to self-analysis and greater emotional health.
Clips
The urge to blame oneself and feel a sense of control when faced with rejection is a common subconscious tactic to deal with the painful experience of not being liked or accepted by someone else.
19:08 - 20:25 (01:17)
Summary
The urge to blame oneself and feel a sense of control when faced with rejection is a common subconscious tactic to deal with the painful experience of not being liked or accepted by someone else.
ChapterSeeing Your Own Value in Relationships
Episode46. When They Don't Like You Back
PodcastAware & Aggravated
People try to change themselves to become what someone prefers in order to gain a sense of control over their own self-worth.
20:25 - 20:57 (00:32)
Summary
People try to change themselves to become what someone prefers in order to gain a sense of control over their own self-worth.
ChapterSeeing Your Own Value in Relationships
Episode46. When They Don't Like You Back
PodcastAware & Aggravated
The speaker discusses the importance of recognizing your own value and being able to analyze situations with a level head.
20:57 - 25:00 (04:03)
Summary
The speaker discusses the importance of recognizing your own value and being able to analyze situations with a level head.
ChapterSeeing Your Own Value in Relationships
Episode46. When They Don't Like You Back
PodcastAware & Aggravated
The decision to try to convince someone to like you takes the same amount of effort as finding someone who does immediately.
25:00 - 25:59 (00:59)
Summary
The decision to try to convince someone to like you takes the same amount of effort as finding someone who does immediately. The choice is yours, but don't let someone fool you twice into thinking they don't want you.
ChapterSeeing Your Own Value in Relationships
Episode46. When They Don't Like You Back
PodcastAware & Aggravated
The speaker advises using her catchphrases "What about it?"
25:59 - 26:56 (00:56)
Summary
The speaker advises using her catchphrases "What about it?" and "What now?" to shift your focus from someone who doesn't value you to taking control and making a decision about what to do next.