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Unlearning patterns when encountering a kind person
Changing your mindset and unlearning habits that allowed you to accept mistreatment or toxicity can be challenging when meeting genuinely nice people. Self-sabotage due to internalized feelings of unworthiness can also come into play.
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In your 20s, it's common to experience unhealthy relationships that teach you negative patterns.
11:04 - 13:32 (02:28)
Summary
In your 20s, it's common to experience unhealthy relationships that teach you negative patterns. When you finally meet someone who is kind, it can be uncomfortable to unlearn those patterns and realize you deserve better.
ChapterUnlearning patterns when encountering a kind person
Episode16. BONUS EPISODE: Love Line
PodcastThe Psychology of your 20’s
In this episode, the hosts discuss the anxieties that can come with relationships, whether it be from past experiences or innate propensities, and offer advice on how to overcome these anxieties.
13:32 - 14:48 (01:16)
Summary
In this episode, the hosts discuss the anxieties that can come with relationships, whether it be from past experiences or innate propensities, and offer advice on how to overcome these anxieties.
ChapterUnlearning patterns when encountering a kind person
Episode16. BONUS EPISODE: Love Line
PodcastThe Psychology of your 20’s
In this conversation, the speaker discusses the tendency to self-sabotage in relationships and the importance of improving expectations to move past it and recognize when a relationship is truly positive.
14:48 - 15:57 (01:08)
Summary
In this conversation, the speaker discusses the tendency to self-sabotage in relationships and the importance of improving expectations to move past it and recognize when a relationship is truly positive.
ChapterUnlearning patterns when encountering a kind person
Episode16. BONUS EPISODE: Love Line
PodcastThe Psychology of your 20’s
In small and insular communities, people tend to quickly label others based on their own limited experiences and perceptions, without considering that the same person might be a better match for someone else.
15:57 - 17:17 (01:20)
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In small and insular communities, people tend to quickly label others based on their own limited experiences and perceptions, without considering that the same person might be a better match for someone else.