The speaker suggests that automated online dating can be compared to playing cards, where you can stack the deck yourself and have someone help you automate the process of swiping right on profiles that match your specifications by posting a project request on freelancing sites like Elance.
In online dating, it's essential to ask effective questions to understand your match and not sound like everyone else. Asking for unique details about one's life, like the most interesting thing that happened recently, is an effective way to spark their emotions and make them recall necessary information.
The speaker discusses the advantages of meeting for coffee over dinner, citing reasons such as the ease of leaving and the lack of investment.
The speaker suggests that playing cards could be interesting for analytical minds, but offers an example of how to automate the process of liking profiles on dating apps to increase efficiency and results.