Episode
#588 - Dr David Ley - Why Would Any Man Choose To Be Cucked?
1:03:19
Published: Sat Feb 11 2023
Description
Dr David Ley is a clinical psychologist and a board member of the Sexual Health Alliance whose research focuses on issues related to sexuality, pornography and mental health. Your partner being intimate with another guy should evolutionarily be one of the biggest fears of a man's life. Actually encouraging this behaviour seems almost unthinkable, and yet cucking is becoming a much more common pursuit and one of the most popular categories of online porn. Expect to learn the stats around how common cuckolding actually is, whether cuckolding could cover up a husband's desire to be with another man, how often this goes wrong and destroys a relationship, whether sex addiction is an actual thing, some surprising research around porn addiction, how religiosity predicts dysfunction with porn and much more... Sponsors: Get 15% discount on Mud/Wtr at http://mudwtr.com/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM) Get 20% discount on House Of Macadamias’ nuts at https://houseofmacadamias.com/modernwisdom (use code MW20) Extra Stuff: Check out Dr Ley's website - https://www.davidleyphd.com/ Follow Dr Ley on Twitter - https://twitter.com/DrDavidLey Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/
Chapters
This episode discusses the prevalence and potential consequences of cook-holding in relationships, examines the validity of sex addiction as a diagnosis, and explores surprising research around porn addiction and religiosity.
00:00 - 04:00 (04:00)
Summary
This episode discusses the prevalence and potential consequences of cook-holding in relationships, examines the validity of sex addiction as a diagnosis, and explores surprising research around porn addiction and religiosity. There is also an ad for House of Macadamias snacks.
Episode#588 - Dr David Ley - Why Would Any Man Choose To Be Cucked?
PodcastModern Wisdom
One may assume that cuckolding, where a man is aroused by watching or knowing about his partner having sex with someone else, is unhealthy.
04:00 - 11:22 (07:22)
Summary
One may assume that cuckolding, where a man is aroused by watching or knowing about his partner having sex with someone else, is unhealthy. But this podcast explores how societal gender expectations can lead some men towards it as an escape from rigid masculinity, and how cuckolding relationships can exist as a healthy and consensual lifestyle choice for some couples.
Episode#588 - Dr David Ley - Why Would Any Man Choose To Be Cucked?
PodcastModern Wisdom
Dr. David Ley discusses the possible psychological motivations behind the cuckolding fetish including fear eroticization and a desire for sexual exploration within a relationship.
11:22 - 22:53 (11:31)
Summary
Dr. David Ley discusses the possible psychological motivations behind the cuckolding fetish including fear eroticization and a desire for sexual exploration within a relationship.
Episode#588 - Dr David Ley - Why Would Any Man Choose To Be Cucked?
PodcastModern Wisdom
Some women in bisexual relationships may show a preference for other women over men.
22:53 - 31:25 (08:32)
Summary
Some women in bisexual relationships may show a preference for other women over men. Historically, polygynous societies with powerful men having access to all women resulted in increased rates of violent crime among young men who couldn't date or mate.
Episode#588 - Dr David Ley - Why Would Any Man Choose To Be Cucked?
PodcastModern Wisdom
Kids who have poor sex education or come from communities that don't talk about sex tend to view pornography as realistic sex.
31:25 - 38:27 (07:02)
Summary
Kids who have poor sex education or come from communities that don't talk about sex tend to view pornography as realistic sex. Research suggests that the more parents try to stop kids from viewing pornography, the more they tend to seek it out.
Episode#588 - Dr David Ley - Why Would Any Man Choose To Be Cucked?
PodcastModern Wisdom
According to a longitudinal study, access to pornography correlates with a decrease in sexual violence in every society where it has been studied.
38:28 - 43:31 (05:03)
Summary
According to a longitudinal study, access to pornography correlates with a decrease in sexual violence in every society where it has been studied. However, some men have reported experiencing porn-induced erectile dysfunction and exposing anyone who legally cannot have sex to videos of people having sex seems to cross a line.
Episode#588 - Dr David Ley - Why Would Any Man Choose To Be Cucked?
PodcastModern Wisdom
There is data that research shows that men with sexual dysfunctions, such as premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction, experience symptoms more frequently during partnered sex than during masturbation.
43:31 - 1:02:14 (18:43)
Summary
There is data that research shows that men with sexual dysfunctions, such as premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction, experience symptoms more frequently during partnered sex than during masturbation. Additionally, those who view sexual stimuli conservatively may be more likely to view any kind of sexual stimuli as pornographic.
Episode#588 - Dr David Ley - Why Would Any Man Choose To Be Cucked?
PodcastModern Wisdom
In this episode, researcher David Cowan discusses his groundbreaking work on Ley lines, ancient landscapes that connect various points of cultural significance such as spiritual landmarks, holy wells, and ancient relics across the world.
1:02:14 - 1:03:23 (01:09)
Summary
In this episode, researcher David Cowan discusses his groundbreaking work on Ley lines, ancient landscapes that connect various points of cultural significance such as spiritual landmarks, holy wells, and ancient relics across the world. Additionally, the episode contains advertisements for Mudwater and House of Macadamia nuts.