Episode
#090 - Dr Taylor Burrowes - A PhD In Relationship Advice
1:03:29
Published: Thu Aug 01 2019
Description
Dr Taylor Burrowes is a Doctor of Marriage, Couples and Family Counselling. After working for 14 years as a mental health counsellor and marriage and family therapist, Dr Burrowes has seen a huge sample of relationships going through turmoil. Today we get to hear about her best advice to make a partnership work. Can you get over cheating? How should men & women play different roles in a relationship? What makes an effective partnership? Why do some couples grow apart? How can you tell your partner your sexual desires without getting awkward? And what role does masturbation have to play in all this? Extra Stuff: Follow Dr Burrowes on Twitter - https://twitter.com/taylorburrowes Dr Burrows & Andrew Tate's Twitter Thread - https://twitter.com/taylorburrowes/status/1153277543258165249 Check out everything I recommend from books to products and help support the podcast at no extra cost to you by shopping through this link - https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/modernwisdom - Get in touch. Join the discussion with me and other like minded listeners in the episode comments on the MW YouTube Channel or message me... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/ModernWisdomPodcast Email: https://www.chriswillx.com/contact
Chapters
A mental health counselor and marriage and family therapist with 14 years of experience shares insights on routine incompatibility, the primary causes of lack of trust, getting over infidelity, and the roles of men and women in relationships.
00:00 - 02:53 (02:53)
Summary
A mental health counselor and marriage and family therapist with 14 years of experience shares insights on routine incompatibility, the primary causes of lack of trust, getting over infidelity, and the roles of men and women in relationships.
Episode#090 - Dr Taylor Burrowes - A PhD In Relationship Advice
PodcastModern Wisdom
Marriage therapist Zach Brittle shares his personal experience with mental health and the stigma around therapy, and discusses how high empathy levels can make one more susceptible to personal and relationship struggles.
02:53 - 12:51 (09:58)
Summary
Marriage therapist Zach Brittle shares his personal experience with mental health and the stigma around therapy, and discusses how high empathy levels can make one more susceptible to personal and relationship struggles. He also talks about the common desire of people to find a "cheat sheet" for finding an ideal partner.
Episode#090 - Dr Taylor Burrowes - A PhD In Relationship Advice
PodcastModern Wisdom
The concept of sexual polarity between masculine and feminine energy characterizes the chemistry and sexual attraction in a heterosexual relationship but can also manifest in same-sex or non-monogamous relationships.
12:51 - 18:27 (05:36)
Summary
The concept of sexual polarity between masculine and feminine energy characterizes the chemistry and sexual attraction in a heterosexual relationship but can also manifest in same-sex or non-monogamous relationships. David Deida believes that even in such relationships, the masculine and feminine energy still has a role to play.
Episode#090 - Dr Taylor Burrowes - A PhD In Relationship Advice
PodcastModern Wisdom
A shared lifestyle is essential in a relationship; if there is no compromise made, it can lead to resentment or power struggles.
18:27 - 23:38 (05:10)
Summary
A shared lifestyle is essential in a relationship; if there is no compromise made, it can lead to resentment or power struggles. One's vision for the future also plays a crucial role in a relationship.
Episode#090 - Dr Taylor Burrowes - A PhD In Relationship Advice
PodcastModern Wisdom
The definition of dating can vary, with some people thinking it means exclusively seeing one person and others thinking it means seeing multiple people.
23:38 - 28:39 (05:01)
Summary
The definition of dating can vary, with some people thinking it means exclusively seeing one person and others thinking it means seeing multiple people. Meanwhile, incremental relationship-building involves doing your homework, vetting options, and establishing how you'll manage any critical junctures that arise.
Episode#090 - Dr Taylor Burrowes - A PhD In Relationship Advice
PodcastModern Wisdom
Holding back trust or attachment in a relationship, in an attempt to hedge bets and wait for a destination, is detrimental to a relationship.
28:39 - 35:16 (06:36)
Summary
Holding back trust or attachment in a relationship, in an attempt to hedge bets and wait for a destination, is detrimental to a relationship. A solid relationship should be built on trust and exclusivity, and any man or woman having this as their foundation, sleeping around on the side could potentially destroy their relationship.
Episode#090 - Dr Taylor Burrowes - A PhD In Relationship Advice
PodcastModern Wisdom
In this episode, the hosts discuss non-monogamy and how some individuals may feel the desire to explore it despite having feelings for someone else.
35:16 - 38:53 (03:37)
Summary
In this episode, the hosts discuss non-monogamy and how some individuals may feel the desire to explore it despite having feelings for someone else. They also touch upon gender roles and the concept of a "king of kings" in relation to historical male dominance.
Episode#090 - Dr Taylor Burrowes - A PhD In Relationship Advice
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker discusses the differences between negative, corrupt, and inappropriate sexualities versus healthy, sensual feminine sexuality.
38:53 - 49:34 (10:40)
Summary
The speaker discusses the differences between negative, corrupt, and inappropriate sexualities versus healthy, sensual feminine sexuality. The speaker also explores whether people remain in fixed or growth mindsets throughout relationships and what may be a fixed element in men's mindsets.
Episode#090 - Dr Taylor Burrowes - A PhD In Relationship Advice
PodcastModern Wisdom
Communication in sexual relationships is crucial to help partners feel comfortable and confident.
49:35 - 56:00 (06:25)
Summary
Communication in sexual relationships is crucial to help partners feel comfortable and confident. It is important for men to have a little bit more sexual confidence than women to maintain a balance and create sexual tension in the relationship.
Episode#090 - Dr Taylor Burrowes - A PhD In Relationship Advice
PodcastModern Wisdom
The sexualization of women in magazines like Cosmopolitan is an attempt by female journalists and writers to educate women, but it has led to more promiscuity and desensitization to our own bodies, potentially hindering our ability to form long-term romantic attachments.
56:00 - 1:02:38 (06:37)
Summary
The sexualization of women in magazines like Cosmopolitan is an attempt by female journalists and writers to educate women, but it has led to more promiscuity and desensitization to our own bodies, potentially hindering our ability to form long-term romantic attachments.
Episode#090 - Dr Taylor Burrowes - A PhD In Relationship Advice
PodcastModern Wisdom
Dr. Taylor Burroughs can be found on his website DrTaylorBurroughs.com and on Twitter at @TaylorBurroughs.
1:02:38 - 1:03:19 (00:41)
Summary
Dr. Taylor Burroughs can be found on his website DrTaylorBurroughs.com and on Twitter at @TaylorBurroughs.