Episode
Extreme Listening with Deeyah Khan
51:55
Published: Mon Aug 10 2020
Description
Extreme listening are two words that don’t usually go together. But there is no other way to describe what Deeyah Khan does. A Muslim woman, she made a documentary, White Right: Meeting the Enemy, about spending time with white supremacists. Her results were so profound, it raises the question, what if we all had the capacity for extreme listening? This is…A Bit of Optimism. YouTube: http://youtube.com/simonsinekFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/simonsinekLinkedin: https://linkedin.com/in/simonsinek/Instagram: https://instagram.com/simonsinek/Twitter: https://twitter.com/simonsinekPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/officialsimonsinek/
Chapters
In the documentary "White Right, Meeting the Enemy," a Muslim woman spends time with white supremacists to understand their beliefs, and details a rally where they gathered with weapons and military uniforms while chanting "blood and soil" and discussing deportations.
00:00 - 02:32 (02:32)
Summary
In the documentary "White Right, Meeting the Enemy," a Muslim woman spends time with white supremacists to understand their beliefs, and details a rally where they gathered with weapons and military uniforms while chanting "blood and soil" and discussing deportations.
EpisodeExtreme Listening with Deeyah Khan
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
Violence often comes from a place of wanting to mask insecurities and feelings of inadequacy, which are often exacerbated in men who are socialized to see aggression and anger as the only acceptable outlets for feelings of hurt and suffering.
02:32 - 10:22 (07:49)
Summary
Violence often comes from a place of wanting to mask insecurities and feelings of inadequacy, which are often exacerbated in men who are socialized to see aggression and anger as the only acceptable outlets for feelings of hurt and suffering. However, experiencing being heard and understood can help unravel these narratives and promote change.
EpisodeExtreme Listening with Deeyah Khan
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
The guest was threatened by white supremacists for supporting multicultural societies, emphasizing the importance of empathetic listening to understand the perspective of others.
10:22 - 13:14 (02:52)
Summary
The guest was threatened by white supremacists for supporting multicultural societies, emphasizing the importance of empathetic listening to understand the perspective of others. In a different interview, he discusses the motivations behind people's hateful behavior.
EpisodeExtreme Listening with Deeyah Khan
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
The podcast discusses the risks, benefits and limits of violent revolution and the unpredictability of change brought about by counter revolution.
13:14 - 18:17 (05:02)
Summary
The podcast discusses the risks, benefits and limits of violent revolution and the unpredictability of change brought about by counter revolution. It recounts an encounter in which an individual chose to continue working against a proposed world view and actively participate in opposing rallies.
EpisodeExtreme Listening with Deeyah Khan
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
Two inmates engaged in conversation and one expresses concern about a potential long sentence, while the other offers words of encouragement, acknowledging the difficulties of prison life.
18:17 - 23:42 (05:25)
Summary
Two inmates engaged in conversation and one expresses concern about a potential long sentence, while the other offers words of encouragement, acknowledging the difficulties of prison life.
EpisodeExtreme Listening with Deeyah Khan
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
The founder and CEO of the venture capital firm Social Capital, Chamath Palihapitiya dives into what he learnt during his time in Middle East and what he understood about jihadists and ISIS.
23:42 - 27:43 (04:00)
Summary
The founder and CEO of the venture capital firm Social Capital, Chamath Palihapitiya dives into what he learnt during his time in Middle East and what he understood about jihadists and ISIS.
EpisodeExtreme Listening with Deeyah Khan
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
The manipulation of broken individuals by those with political motives is preventing society from benefiting from the creativity and brilliance of these individuals.
27:43 - 32:13 (04:30)
Summary
The manipulation of broken individuals by those with political motives is preventing society from benefiting from the creativity and brilliance of these individuals. The similarities between the recruitment tactics of Al-Qaeda and ISIS are discussed.
EpisodeExtreme Listening with Deeyah Khan
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
The Black Lives Matter movement is not just against something, it is also articulating a vision for a future that includes all individuals-contributing to the movement's overall momentum.
32:13 - 37:15 (05:01)
Summary
The Black Lives Matter movement is not just against something, it is also articulating a vision for a future that includes all individuals-contributing to the movement's overall momentum.
EpisodeExtreme Listening with Deeyah Khan
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
The key to understanding individuals with opposing views is to approach conversations with empathy and humanity.
37:15 - 41:23 (04:08)
Summary
The key to understanding individuals with opposing views is to approach conversations with empathy and humanity. By focusing on the human beings behind the ideologies, we can move away from abstract theories and language that can leave us feeling hopeless.
EpisodeExtreme Listening with Deeyah Khan
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
In having difficult conversations, it is crucial to prioritize human connection, regardless of how others may dehumanize or mistreat you.
41:23 - 45:07 (03:43)
Summary
In having difficult conversations, it is crucial to prioritize human connection, regardless of how others may dehumanize or mistreat you. This involves actively listening, making people feel valued, and building trust and loyalty with open communication.
EpisodeExtreme Listening with Deeyah Khan
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
Falling in love is about finding the willingness to sacrifice for another person, where empathy should be followed up with giving someone a place to go.
45:07 - 47:44 (02:37)
Summary
Falling in love is about finding the willingness to sacrifice for another person, where empathy should be followed up with giving someone a place to go.
EpisodeExtreme Listening with Deeyah Khan
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
This episode explores the transformation that can occur when one practices empathetic listening with some of the worst of the worst, including convicted terrorists.
47:45 - 51:01 (03:15)
Summary
This episode explores the transformation that can occur when one practices empathetic listening with some of the worst of the worst, including convicted terrorists. The host shares how this practice can lead to true connection and the start of meaningful conversations.
EpisodeExtreme Listening with Deeyah Khan
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
The importance of not turning one's back on people, no matter how far gone or how ugly their behavior may seem, is discussed in this episode with guest Akanundrum.
51:01 - 51:53 (00:51)
Summary
The importance of not turning one's back on people, no matter how far gone or how ugly their behavior may seem, is discussed in this episode with guest Akanundrum.