Episode

1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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1:43:45
Published: Mon Mar 22 2021
Description

"Greatness is actually fulfilling what you’re called to do."Today's guest is Michael Todd, the lead pastor of Transformation Church. His driving passion is representing God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ. His sermons have been viewed over 50 million times online and he recently wrote the book Relationship Goals: How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex as well as Relationship Goals Challenge: Thirty Days from Good to Great.In this episode Lewis and Michael discuss why we should be focusing on progression not perfection, the three main qualities every relationship should be founded on, how to start believing in yourself and all you have to offer, and so much more!For more go to: www.lewishowes.com/1087Read Michael's book: www.iammiketodd.com/relationship-goals YouTube: Transformation ChurchYouTube: Represent TVCheck out: https://www.speedoftrust.com/ The Power of Erotic Intelligence with Esther Perel: https://link.chtbl.com/732-podFind Lasting Love with Matthew Hussey: https://link.chtbl.com/811-pod

Chapters
Michael Todd shares his journey to discovering the secrets to successful relationships and the three main qualities that every relationship should be founded on, as well as the importance of therapy or counseling for relationships.
00:00 - 04:56 (04:56)
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Relationships
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Michael Todd shares his journey to discovering the secrets to successful relationships and the three main qualities that every relationship should be founded on, as well as the importance of therapy or counseling for relationships.

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The speaker emphasizes the significance of discipline in marriage and everyday life, overcoming temptations and distractions such as social media, fast food, and laziness to reach long-term goals and maintain healthy relationships.
04:56 - 10:33 (05:37)
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Discipline
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The speaker emphasizes the significance of discipline in marriage and everyday life, overcoming temptations and distractions such as social media, fast food, and laziness to reach long-term goals and maintain healthy relationships.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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The School of Greatness
Unity in a relationship leads to a commanded blessing and authentic attraction, whereas division and separate visions can cause everything to crumble.
10:33 - 16:04 (05:30)
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Relationships
Summary

Unity in a relationship leads to a commanded blessing and authentic attraction, whereas division and separate visions can cause everything to crumble. It's important to have open communication and talk about real issues in unity to become a better version of yourself and improve the relationship.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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The School of Greatness
The speaker highlights the importance of grace in relationships, especially in the context of marriage, and how it helps to navigate the ups and downs of life while acknowledging personal mistakes and growth.
16:04 - 20:01 (03:56)
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Relationships
Summary

The speaker highlights the importance of grace in relationships, especially in the context of marriage, and how it helps to navigate the ups and downs of life while acknowledging personal mistakes and growth.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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The School of Greatness
In a relationship or marriage, both individuals need to continue growing as individuals and developing their singleness to avoid a future disconnect due to insecurities, communication issues or changes in preferences.
20:01 - 30:12 (10:11)
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Relationship advice
Summary

In a relationship or marriage, both individuals need to continue growing as individuals and developing their singleness to avoid a future disconnect due to insecurities, communication issues or changes in preferences. It is essential to work on yourself to become what you seek in a partner.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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The School of Greatness
Speaker emphasizes the importance of having similar faith systems in order to have a grounded relationship.
30:12 - 36:16 (06:03)
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Relationships
Summary

Speaker emphasizes the importance of having similar faith systems in order to have a grounded relationship. Recommends taking the time to learn about each other before sharing everything.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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The School of Greatness
The key to a successful relationship is being transparent about emotions, having faith in something stronger than the individual, and having fun together.
36:16 - 42:37 (06:20)
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Relationships
Summary

The key to a successful relationship is being transparent about emotions, having faith in something stronger than the individual, and having fun together. While these guidelines are rooted in faith, they can also be applied to those who do not believe the same things.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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The School of Greatness
The speaker emphasizes the importance of stepping back, creating margin, and taking time off to prioritize your personal life and family before success takes over and causes you to lose the ones you love.
42:37 - 49:35 (06:58)
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Personal Growth
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The speaker emphasizes the importance of stepping back, creating margin, and taking time off to prioritize your personal life and family before success takes over and causes you to lose the ones you love.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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The idea that success means having a huge following on Instagram and YouTube doesn't necessarily apply to everyone.
49:35 - 54:49 (05:13)
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Success
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The idea that success means having a huge following on Instagram and YouTube doesn't necessarily apply to everyone. Sometimes, it's important to realize what works for you personally and what doesn't.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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The speaker discusses the importance of combining therapy and religion to address mental health issues and the societal stigma around seeking help.
54:49 - 1:02:45 (07:55)
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Therapy
Summary

The speaker discusses the importance of combining therapy and religion to address mental health issues and the societal stigma around seeking help.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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The School of Greatness
In this episode, the speaker talks about the process of overcoming self-doubt and how to find self-identity by reminding oneself of inherent values and worthiness, independent of output or production.
1:02:45 - 1:08:04 (05:19)
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Self-doubt, Identity
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In this episode, the speaker talks about the process of overcoming self-doubt and how to find self-identity by reminding oneself of inherent values and worthiness, independent of output or production.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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The School of Greatness
The speaker shares how despite living a life full of sin and mistake, the love and grace of God transformed their life and faith.
1:08:04 - 1:11:29 (03:24)
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Faith
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The speaker shares how despite living a life full of sin and mistake, the love and grace of God transformed their life and faith.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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The School of Greatness
The importance of sharing pain and shame to heal, and the value of networking based on insulation rather than success are discussed.
1:11:29 - 1:15:33 (04:04)
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Healing
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The importance of sharing pain and shame to heal, and the value of networking based on insulation rather than success are discussed.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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In this episode, the speaker emphasizes the importance of serving and helping others.
1:15:33 - 1:21:25 (05:51)
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Success and Fulfillment
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In this episode, the speaker emphasizes the importance of serving and helping others. He shares his personal experience of how finding success and happiness goes beyond personal gain and that it ultimately comes from serving others.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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Author, speaker and entrepreneur, Lewis Howes, talks about the benefits of taking a sabbatical as an author and how it can have an impact on personal growth and success.
1:21:25 - 1:24:43 (03:18)
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Writing
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Author, speaker and entrepreneur, Lewis Howes, talks about the benefits of taking a sabbatical as an author and how it can have an impact on personal growth and success. He explains the importance of removing distractions and using "blinders" to focus on achieving goals.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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The pastor of a church talks about creating a financial abundance mindset as a pastor where it is considered taboo to talk money and how focusing on people and helping others leads to financial abundance.
1:24:43 - 1:30:07 (05:24)
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Financial abundance
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The pastor of a church talks about creating a financial abundance mindset as a pastor where it is considered taboo to talk money and how focusing on people and helping others leads to financial abundance.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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The School of Greatness
The speaker describes the generosity and charitable giving of their church, which gave away $3.5 million in one Sunday.
1:30:07 - 1:35:08 (05:01)
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Charity
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The speaker describes the generosity and charitable giving of their church, which gave away $3.5 million in one Sunday. The church continues to identify and address local needs by providing financial assistance, such as paying a woman's husband's salary and paying off their house.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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The School of Greatness
The speaker recommends Michael Todd's books, "Relationship Goals" and "Relationship Goals Challenge," for practical advice and exercises to enhance the quality of your relationships.
1:35:08 - 1:40:47 (05:38)
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Relationships
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The speaker recommends Michael Todd's books, "Relationship Goals" and "Relationship Goals Challenge," for practical advice and exercises to enhance the quality of your relationships.

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1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
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The School of Greatness
The speaker encourages listeners to subscribe, leave a review, join their texting list, and check out their Relationship Goals book.
1:40:47 - 1:43:34 (02:47)
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Relationships
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The speaker encourages listeners to subscribe, leave a review, join their texting list, and check out their Relationship Goals book. The message emphasizes living a life of service and improving the quality of relationships.

Episode
1087 Mastering Relationships, Marriage & Sex (The SPIRITUAL Keys) w/Pastor Michael Todd
Podcast
The School of Greatness