Episode

791: Math or Magic?
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56:34
Published: Sun Feb 12 2023
Description

When it comes to finding love, there seems to be two schools of thought on the best way to go about it. One says, wait for that lightning-strike magic. The other says, make a calculation and choose the best option available. Who has it right?

Chapters
This episode of This American Life features three stories of people persevering in the face of seemingly impossible circumstances.
00:00 - 00:43 (00:43)
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Perseverance
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This episode of This American Life features three stories of people persevering in the face of seemingly impossible circumstances. A widow with eight children has an incredibly difficult decision to make when she learns that one of her sons told a lie.

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791: Math or Magic?
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This American Life
The podcast explores the myth of finding "the one" and how it can lead to unattainable expectations in relationships.
00:43 - 07:48 (07:05)
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relationships
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The podcast explores the myth of finding "the one" and how it can lead to unattainable expectations in relationships.

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791: Math or Magic?
Podcast
This American Life
A discussion about the cultural differences in finding love and how some may view a more practical approach as cold or unacceptable.
07:48 - 12:15 (04:26)
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Love and Culture
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A discussion about the cultural differences in finding love and how some may view a more practical approach as cold or unacceptable. The speaker contrasts their own experience with an Indian ad stereotype.

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791: Math or Magic?
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This American Life
The hosts discuss whether someone who is actively seeking a life partner is more high maintenance compared to someone who is just casually dating.
12:15 - 15:33 (03:18)
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Relationship
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The hosts discuss whether someone who is actively seeking a life partner is more high maintenance compared to someone who is just casually dating.

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791: Math or Magic?
Podcast
This American Life
Shalab fell in love with a girl who runs a travel company in India, but they initially hesitated to meet for a long time.
15:40 - 20:41 (05:00)
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Long-distance relationship
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Shalab fell in love with a girl who runs a travel company in India, but they initially hesitated to meet for a long time. After much back and forth, they finally decided to meet and their connection was instant and undeniable.

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791: Math or Magic?
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This American Life
The podcast explores stories of people finding love either by trusting magic or by being practical.
20:41 - 26:49 (06:07)
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Love Stories
Summary

The podcast explores stories of people finding love either by trusting magic or by being practical. They explore the idea of love at first sight and whether it's simply magic or a practical phenomenon.

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791: Math or Magic?
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This American Life
The transcript discusses the feeling of meeting the person you know you will marry and the anxiety surrounding finding a life partner.
26:49 - 34:45 (07:56)
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Relationships
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The transcript discusses the feeling of meeting the person you know you will marry and the anxiety surrounding finding a life partner.

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791: Math or Magic?
Podcast
This American Life
The speaker gives advice on first relationships, emphasizing the importance of being brave and straightforward, while acknowledging the thrill of finding someone who likes you back.
34:47 - 38:30 (03:43)
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Relationships
Summary

The speaker gives advice on first relationships, emphasizing the importance of being brave and straightforward, while acknowledging the thrill of finding someone who likes you back.

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791: Math or Magic?
Podcast
This American Life
The idea of finding love using science is appealing, but the heart still wants what it wants.
38:31 - 42:27 (03:55)
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love
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The idea of finding love using science is appealing, but the heart still wants what it wants. The podcast discusses the limitations of using data to find a love match.

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791: Math or Magic?
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This American Life
A person describes a unique 3D experience where images were shown to each individual eye, creating a different type of 3D effect.
42:27 - 46:53 (04:25)
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Technology
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A person describes a unique 3D experience where images were shown to each individual eye, creating a different type of 3D effect. Although unsure of the benefits, they signed up for it.

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791: Math or Magic?
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This American Life
The speaker reflects on the rare moments of clarity and joy that come with being single, highlighting the importance of living a fulfilling life outside of a relationship.
46:54 - 52:01 (05:07)
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Single Life
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The speaker reflects on the rare moments of clarity and joy that come with being single, highlighting the importance of living a fulfilling life outside of a relationship.

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791: Math or Magic?
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This American Life
This episode is a mix of stories and interviews with the theme of finding love and handling bomb threats, featuring guests like Dan Savage and comedian Nikki Glaser.
52:03 - 54:23 (02:19)
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Love
Summary

This episode is a mix of stories and interviews with the theme of finding love and handling bomb threats, featuring guests like Dan Savage and comedian Nikki Glaser.

Episode
791: Math or Magic?
Podcast
This American Life