Episode
#023 - Relationships 101
1:09:49
Published: Tue Jul 31 2018
Description
Jonny and Yusef from PropaneFitness.com join me for the first episode in a new series on relationships. Come with us as we delve into the murky waters of finding, choosing and connecting with a partner. Very quickly this channel is becoming a hub for the advice I wish I'd had 10 years ago, hopefully this episode helps you expedite a path to happiness and avoid the pitfalls of finding another human to connect with. We've got a lot more coming soon. Don't forget that you can head to https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast to watch and further the discussion with other viewers in the comments. Referred Resources: "Women Date Up And Across Dominance Hierarchies" - Jordan Peterson on Female Hypergamy and Its Impact on Human Evolution: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N7LN14IpVy0 Hypergamy Defined: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypergamy JBP on The Male Dominance Hierarchy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rUiG5_GcMyY Demographics of Cheating by age: https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america Why We Are Fated To Be Lonely - The School Of Life: https://youtu.be/AtCR6P5rsXU Check out everything I recommend from books to products and help support the podcast at no extra cost to you by shopping through this link - https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/modernwisdom - Get in touch. Join the discussion with me and other like minded listeners in the episode comments on the MW YouTube Channel or message me... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/ModernWisdomPodcast Email: https://www.chriswillx.com/contact
Chapters
Jonny and Youssef from Propane Fitness join in this episode to provide some helpful advice regarding the dating scene.
00:00 - 03:22 (03:22)
Summary
Jonny and Youssef from Propane Fitness join in this episode to provide some helpful advice regarding the dating scene. The hosts discuss dating advice and offer statistics and valuable tips on maintaining healthy relationships.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
The host shares his frustration with late guests and then shares his recent relationship musings with the audience.
03:22 - 05:10 (01:47)
Summary
The host shares his frustration with late guests and then shares his recent relationship musings with the audience.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker shares his realizations and rules to help girls distinguish good guys from bad guys.
05:10 - 08:44 (03:33)
Summary
The speaker shares his realizations and rules to help girls distinguish good guys from bad guys. He also believes that his job as a club promoter is more of a leader and a glorified parent, especially for people under 23 to 25 years old who tend to think with their sexual desires first.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker suggests that by setting higher standards and giving sufficient attention, men who invest their time should show sufficient interest to overcome obstacles instead of losing them at the first hurdle.
08:44 - 17:22 (08:37)
Summary
The speaker suggests that by setting higher standards and giving sufficient attention, men who invest their time should show sufficient interest to overcome obstacles instead of losing them at the first hurdle. It is challenging for young men to be stable and emotionally mature for a relationship, so it’s essential to set realistic expectations.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
This podcast discusses the importance of setting standards and precedents in relationships, and how this can shape behavior for both partners.
17:22 - 20:39 (03:17)
Summary
This podcast discusses the importance of setting standards and precedents in relationships, and how this can shape behavior for both partners. It highlights how men are able to "outwit" women in relationships but notes that setting a tone for the relationship can prevent them from taking advantage.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker emphasizes the importance of men understanding women's motivations and beliefs, rather than seeing them as victims of mistreatment by men.
20:39 - 24:32 (03:52)
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The speaker emphasizes the importance of men understanding women's motivations and beliefs, rather than seeing them as victims of mistreatment by men. He also acknowledges his previous lack of awareness on the topic during his younger years.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
The dominance hierarchy plays a role in attraction as people are more likely to mate with someone they perceive to be of a higher social status than them.
24:32 - 26:55 (02:23)
Summary
The dominance hierarchy plays a role in attraction as people are more likely to mate with someone they perceive to be of a higher social status than them. This perception of status can be based on attractiveness as well as other factors such as social standing.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
The conversation discusses the dynamic between men being seen as the sexual aggressors and women as the victims, along with discrepancies in the number of men and women prepared to have sex in relationships.
26:55 - 29:42 (02:47)
Summary
The conversation discusses the dynamic between men being seen as the sexual aggressors and women as the victims, along with discrepancies in the number of men and women prepared to have sex in relationships.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
The appearance of neoteny, or a youthful face, can be attractive because it signals fertility, while angular features can denote traits such as aggression, ambition and dominance.
29:42 - 34:11 (04:29)
Summary
The appearance of neoteny, or a youthful face, can be attractive because it signals fertility, while angular features can denote traits such as aggression, ambition and dominance.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
The podcast briefly discusses how Grindr can be a platform for exploring one's sexual preferences and how one can determine if they are a "top" or "bottom" during encounters with other men.
34:11 - 36:48 (02:37)
Summary
The podcast briefly discusses how Grindr can be a platform for exploring one's sexual preferences and how one can determine if they are a "top" or "bottom" during encounters with other men.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
The podcast discusses the concept of pick-up artistry, which is essentially convincing someone for a short enough period that you are someone who you are not, to appear higher on a dominance hierarchy that is relevant to the situation.
36:48 - 41:25 (04:36)
Summary
The podcast discusses the concept of pick-up artistry, which is essentially convincing someone for a short enough period that you are someone who you are not, to appear higher on a dominance hierarchy that is relevant to the situation.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
The reason people cheat is due to their failure to properly assess the long-term outcomes and expenses for their decisions.
41:25 - 45:32 (04:07)
Summary
The reason people cheat is due to their failure to properly assess the long-term outcomes and expenses for their decisions. Additionally, some may struggle to resist short-term temptations and prioritize their long-term commitments.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker provides relationship advice for men and women, recommending that women allow their partner to make mistakes - just not with them - while men are advised to avoid the emotional turmoil of long-term relationships.
45:32 - 48:41 (03:08)
Summary
The speaker provides relationship advice for men and women, recommending that women allow their partner to make mistakes - just not with them - while men are advised to avoid the emotional turmoil of long-term relationships. The speaker speculates that the highest divorce rates occur among couples in their forties to fifties who have been married for a while.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
The idea that humans are naturally inclined to be monogamous has been challenged by a number of experts, including Christopher Ryan and sex researcher, Marta Meana.
48:41 - 50:55 (02:14)
Summary
The idea that humans are naturally inclined to be monogamous has been challenged by a number of experts, including Christopher Ryan and sex researcher, Marta Meana. Advocates for monogamy argue that it is the most stable and healthiest way to maintain a long-term relationship.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
The use of pornography can alter the way the brain functions and can even lead to desensitization and the need to seek out more intense and violent forms of pornography.
50:55 - 54:08 (03:13)
Summary
The use of pornography can alter the way the brain functions and can even lead to desensitization and the need to seek out more intense and violent forms of pornography.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
This podcast episode encourages men to embrace their unique identities and interests in order to improve their dating lives and overall happiness, while acknowledging the struggles that may come with being outside the norm.
54:08 - 57:52 (03:44)
Summary
This podcast episode encourages men to embrace their unique identities and interests in order to improve their dating lives and overall happiness, while acknowledging the struggles that may come with being outside the norm.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker shares his personal experience on how honesty, integrity, and being true to oneself can attract unexpected opportunities and achievements that might have seemed impossible.
57:52 - 1:04:09 (06:17)
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The speaker shares his personal experience on how honesty, integrity, and being true to oneself can attract unexpected opportunities and achievements that might have seemed impossible. He emphasizes that this core tenet should not be compromised for acceptance or approval.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
Embracing your uniqueness can give you access to potential partners you never would have found otherwise, allowing you to form successful relationships even if you don't fit into the traditional mold.
1:04:09 - 1:07:48 (03:39)
Summary
Embracing your uniqueness can give you access to potential partners you never would have found otherwise, allowing you to form successful relationships even if you don't fit into the traditional mold.
Episode#023 - Relationships 101
PodcastModern Wisdom
This podcast provides guidance on how to determine whether or not to enter into a relationship, how to decide who to be in a relationship with, and principles for identifying a viable long-term partner.
1:07:48 - 1:09:34 (01:45)
Summary
This podcast provides guidance on how to determine whether or not to enter into a relationship, how to decide who to be in a relationship with, and principles for identifying a viable long-term partner.