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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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Published: Thu Jan 13 2022
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Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More | Brought to you by Helium 10 all-in-one software suite to sell on Amazon, Dry Farm Wines natural wines designed for fewer hangovers, and Athletic Greens all-in-one nutritional supplement. More on all three below.Sarah Silverman (@SarahKSilverman) is a two-time-Emmy Award-winning comedian, actress, writer, and producer.She currently hosts The Sarah Silverman Podcast and stars in the HBO Max animated series Santa Inc., opposite Seth Rogen. She will next be seen opposite Jennifer Lopez and Owen Wilson in the feature film Marry Me. Other upcoming projects include TBS’s Stupid Pet Tricks, an expansion of the famous David Letterman late-night segment, and the indie psychological thriller Viral, starring alongside Blair Underwood.Her first book, a memoir called The Bedwetter: Stories of Courage, Redemption, and Pee, which went on to become a New York Times bestseller, is currently being adapted into a musical with the Atlantic Theater Company to premiere in April 2022.Silverman served as creator, executive producer, and host of the Emmy-nominated series I Love You, America, which streamed weekly on Hulu and saw her connecting with people through honesty and humor. On stage, she continues to be recognized as a force in stand-up comedy. Her latest stand-up special, A Speck of Dust, debuted on Netflix in May 2017 and culminated in two Emmy Award nominations and a Grammy Award nomination. Her additional film and television work includes Battle of the Sexes, I Smile Back, Wreck-It Ralph, Wreck-It Ralph 2: Ralph Breaks The Internet, Masters of Sex, and Bob’s Burgers.Please enjoy!This episode is brought to you by Helium 10! Helium 10 is an all-in-one software suite designed to help entrepreneurs launch, manage, and scale a profitable e-commerce business on Amazon and Walmart.com. Whether you are an entrepreneur who wants to start a business on your own terms or you want to scale your existing e-commerce operations, Helium 10 is here to help.Join more than 1 million Helium 10 users worldwide by signing up for a free account at Helium10.com/Tim!*This episode is also brought to you by Athletic Greens. I get asked all the time, “If you could only use one supplement, what would it be?” My answer is usually AG1 by Athletic Greens, my all-in-one nutritional insurance. I recommended it in The 4-Hour Body in 2010 and did not get paid to do so. I do my best with nutrient-dense meals, of course, but AG further covers my bases with vitamins, minerals, and whole-food-sourced micronutrients that support gut health and the immune system. Right now, Athletic Greens is offering you their Vitamin D Liquid Formula free with your first subscription purchase—a vital nutrient for a strong immune system and strong bones. Visit AthleticGreens.com/Tim to claim this special offer today and receive the free Vitamin D Liquid Formula (and five free travel packs) with your first subscription purchase! That’s up to a one-year supply of Vitamin D as added value when you try their delicious and comprehensive all-in-one daily greens product.*This episode is also brought to you by Dry Farm Wines. I’m a wine drinker, and I love a few glasses over meals with friends. That said, I hate hangovers. For the last few months, all of the wine in my house has been from Dry Farm Wines. Why? At least in my experience, their wine means more fun with fewer headaches. Dry Farm Wines only ships wines that meet very stringent criteria: practically sugar free (less than 0.15g per glass), lower alcohol (less than 12.5% alcohol), additive free (there are more than 70 FDA-approved wine-making additives), lower sulfites, organic, and produced by small family farms.All Dry Farm Wines are laboratory tested for purity standards by a certified, independent enologist, and all of their wines are also backed by a 100% Happiness Promise—they will either replace or refund any wine you do not love. Last but not least, I find delicious wines I never would have found otherwise. It’s a lot of fun. Dry Farm Wines has a special offer just for listeners of the podcast—an extra bottle in your first box for just one extra penny. Check out all the details at DryFarmWines.com/Tim.*Sarah continues her story about childhood depression that Jerry Seinfeld interrupted in Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee, explains what was going on in her life at the time, and answers the question her stepfather posed: “What does it feel like?” [06:34]How did Sarah become her own best friend, and does this make her asocial? [10:47]As a television aficionado, what shows give her comfort and deserve regular revisiting? [17:35]What does Sarah mean by “comedy stress?” [21:02]What Sarah discovered about herself and the comedic process while writing her memoir, working on her first feature, and observing Chris Rock. [22:04]How Sarah’s experience as a writer and performer on Saturday Night Live — and as a basketball player growing up — made her tougher. [28:05]The aftermath of Sarah’s time at SNL and favorite Charlie Kaufman quotes. [36:30]On the rise of extremism across the political spectrum, where it seems to be headed, and what we need to remember about the things we consume via social media. [42:19]The comfort zone of worrying. [46:24]Sarah’s advice to people who are prone to constant self-flagellation. [48:27]How has therapy helped Sarah, and how frequently does she attend sessions? Why did she recently switch therapists? [52:27]Why prompted Sarah to start her own podcast? How does it differ from her comedic work, and how does she choose her participants? [59:47]Is Sarah becoming her mother? [1:05:28]How did Sarah get involved as the dramatic lead in the movie I Smile Back, and what did she take away from the experience? [1:08:16]What did Sarah learn from spending time and working with the late Garry Shandling? [1:11:37]What would Sarah’s billboard say? [1:14:42]Grab joy where you can get it. [1:16:34]Why you should never miss the chance to mourn at a comedian’s funeral. [1:17:31]What would Sarah’s name be if she’d been born a boy? [1:18:41]Parting thoughts. [1:19:11]*For show notes and past guests, please visit tim.blog/podcast.Sign up for Tim’s email newsletter (“5-Bullet Friday”) at tim.blog/friday.For transcripts of episodes, go to tim.blog/transcripts.Discover Tim’s books: tim.blog/books.Follow Tim:Twitter: twitter.com/tferriss Instagram: instagram.com/timferrissFacebook: facebook.com/timferriss YouTube: youtube.com/timferrissPast guests on The Tim Ferriss Show include Jerry Seinfeld, Hugh Jackman, Dr. Jane Goodall, LeBron James, Kevin Hart, Doris Kearns Goodwin, Jamie Foxx, Matthew McConaughey, Esther Perel, Elizabeth Gilbert, Terry Crews, Sia, Yuval Noah Harari, Malcolm Gladwell, Madeleine Albright, Cheryl Strayed, Jim Collins, Mary Karr, Maria Popova, Sam Harris, Michael Phelps, Bob Iger, Edward Norton, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Neil Strauss, Ken Burns, Maria Sharapova, Marc Andreessen, Neil Gaiman, Neil de Grasse Tyson, Jocko Willink, Daniel Ek, Kelly Slater, Dr. Peter Attia, Seth Godin, Howard Marks, Dr. Brené Brown, Eric Schmidt, Michael Lewis, Joe Gebbia, Michael Pollan, Dr. Jordan Peterson, Vince Vaughn, Brian Koppelman, Ramit Sethi, Dax Shepard, Tony Robbins, Jim Dethmer, Dan Harris, Ray Dalio, Naval Ravikant, Vitalik Buterin, Elizabeth Lesser, Amanda Palmer, Katie Haun, Sir Richard Branson, Chuck Palahniuk, Arianna Huffington, Reid Hoffman, Bill Burr, Whitney Cummings, Rick Rubin, Dr. Vivek Murthy, Darren Aronofsky, Balaji Srinivasan, Sarah Silverman, Dr. Andrew Huberman, Dr. Michio Kaku, and many more.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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The speaker reflects on a past relationship where she lost herself and mentions reading an article in The Guardian about how to "be" in a relationship, which has impacted her life.
07:11 - 14:23 (07:12)
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Relationships
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The speaker reflects on a past relationship where she lost herself and mentions reading an article in The Guardian about how to "be" in a relationship, which has impacted her life.

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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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The speaker talks about their discovery of their newfound love for the show, Colombo, and how it serves as a totem of consistency in their life.
14:23 - 21:27 (07:04)
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The speaker talks about their discovery of their newfound love for the show, Colombo, and how it serves as a totem of consistency in their life.

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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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The speaker got inspired by watching Chris Rock's stand-up and his pro-level of working on and improving his content.
21:27 - 27:19 (05:51)
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Entertainment
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The speaker got inspired by watching Chris Rock's stand-up and his pro-level of working on and improving his content. The speaker then talks about the joy of watching murder mysteries and thrillers.

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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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Women in basketball and comedy experience the weight of male dominance and often feel the need to prove themselves to their male counterparts.
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Female Empowerment
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Women in basketball and comedy experience the weight of male dominance and often feel the need to prove themselves to their male counterparts. However, by watching men fail and persist, women can learn to shake off failure and develop resilience.

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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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Dry Farm Wines guarantees their wines meet stringent purity standards and offers a happiness promise.
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Dry Farm Wines
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Dry Farm Wines guarantees their wines meet stringent purity standards and offers a happiness promise. They are currently offering an extra bottle in the first box for a penny.

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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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Comedian and writer, Sloane Crosley, discusses her approach to finding success without setting goals in a specific direction, and how her unexpected audience has shaped her career.
36:40 - 42:41 (06:00)
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Success
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Comedian and writer, Sloane Crosley, discusses her approach to finding success without setting goals in a specific direction, and how her unexpected audience has shaped her career.

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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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The speaker discusses how the fear of the future can lead to a "book burning" mentality, where people begin attacking others for their beliefs or trying to suppress information that doesn't align with their own views.
42:41 - 51:14 (08:33)
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Fear of the future
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The speaker discusses how the fear of the future can lead to a "book burning" mentality, where people begin attacking others for their beliefs or trying to suppress information that doesn't align with their own views.

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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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The speaker talks about hecklers interrupting her shows and how therapy can help for those who are fortunate enough to afford it and find a good therapist.
51:14 - 55:59 (04:45)
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mental health
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The speaker talks about hecklers interrupting her shows and how therapy can help for those who are fortunate enough to afford it and find a good therapist.

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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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The speaker talks about seeking a different perspective from his colleagues as well as high lighting his preference of opinionated, thinky, and hippie dippy perspectives.
56:00 - 1:07:02 (11:01)
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Perspective
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The speaker talks about seeking a different perspective from his colleagues as well as high lighting his preference of opinionated, thinky, and hippie dippy perspectives. He also shares his thought process on creating an outline to organize his thoughts.

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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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The speaker recounts a moment in which he caught himself feeling superior to someone else based on their snack choices and discusses the importance of recognizing and avoiding such thoughts in order to build empathy.
1:07:02 - 1:10:06 (03:04)
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Empathy
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The speaker recounts a moment in which he caught himself feeling superior to someone else based on their snack choices and discusses the importance of recognizing and avoiding such thoughts in order to build empathy.

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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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This podcast snippet highlights the fear of silence in conversations and how it can lead to random topics and incoherent discussions.
1:10:06 - 1:13:41 (03:35)
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Communication
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This podcast snippet highlights the fear of silence in conversations and how it can lead to random topics and incoherent discussions.

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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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Comedian Mike Birbiglia shares his thoughts on what message he would like to put on a metaphorical billboard to reach billions of people.
1:13:41 - 1:17:05 (03:24)
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Comedian Mike Birbiglia shares his thoughts on what message he would like to put on a metaphorical billboard to reach billions of people. He believes that his comedy notebook, which is half journal, would be useful for everyone to see on a billboard.

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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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Sarah Silverman recommends her own podcast where listeners can find joy each week, including her recent tribute to Gary Shanley.
1:17:05 - 1:20:07 (03:01)
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podcasts
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Sarah Silverman recommends her own podcast where listeners can find joy each week, including her recent tribute to Gary Shanley.

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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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This podcast episode includes a mention of a special offer from Athletic Greens, which includes a free vitamin D supplement and five free travel packs with the first subscription purchase.
1:20:07 - 1:23:49 (03:42)
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Athletic Greens
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This podcast episode includes a mention of a special offer from Athletic Greens, which includes a free vitamin D supplement and five free travel packs with the first subscription purchase.

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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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Helium 10 offers entrepreneurs an all-in-one software suite to launch, manage and grow their e-commerce businesses with advanced trainings, strategies, and tools to help manage finances and advertising.
1:23:49 - 1:26:08 (02:19)
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Helium 10 offers entrepreneurs an all-in-one software suite to launch, manage and grow their e-commerce businesses with advanced trainings, strategies, and tools to help manage finances and advertising. Helium 10 is suitable for entrepreneurs who want to expand their existing e-commerce operations or start a business on their own terms.

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#563: Sarah Silverman — The Joy of Being Alone, Becoming Your Own Best Friend, Insights from Therapy, and More
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