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Episode

Sleep Divorce, Fighting in Public & Boundaries for Childbirth
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Published: Wed Apr 19 2023
Description

You guys asked... And we answered! In this week's episode, we changed up the format a bit and decided to do a little bit of an advice column. From talking about our recent sleep divorce to our opinions on including parents in fights and fighting in public as well as setting boundaries for childbirth, we covered a lot of advice. Make sure to rate our podcast and leave a review if you can, it really helps us out!

Chapters
The speaker discusses the troubles in her marriage, including fighting in front of others and breaching trust.
00:00 - 00:43 (00:43)
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Relationships
Summary

The speaker discusses the troubles in her marriage, including fighting in front of others and breaching trust. She emphasizes the importance of open communication and setting boundaries in relationships, such as hospital visits.

Episode
Sleep Divorce, Fighting in Public & Boundaries for Childbirth
Podcast
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Abby and her husband explained in a TikTok video that they haven't been sleeping together due to their son still waking up in the night and Abby being pregnant.
00:43 - 03:40 (02:57)
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Relationships
Summary

Abby and her husband explained in a TikTok video that they haven't been sleeping together due to their son still waking up in the night and Abby being pregnant. They advise seeking a counselor for serious relationship advice.

Episode
Sleep Divorce, Fighting in Public & Boundaries for Childbirth
Podcast
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
A couple discusses their decision to stay in Arizona long-term, despite the possibility of having to move frequently as a military family.
03:40 - 07:23 (03:43)
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Arizona
Summary

A couple discusses their decision to stay in Arizona long-term, despite the possibility of having to move frequently as a military family.

Episode
Sleep Divorce, Fighting in Public & Boundaries for Childbirth
Podcast
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
A couple discusses their decision to get married at a young age despite their love for travel and the importance of considering both the pros and cons of such a big commitment.
07:23 - 11:16 (03:52)
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Marriage
Summary

A couple discusses their decision to get married at a young age despite their love for travel and the importance of considering both the pros and cons of such a big commitment.

Episode
Sleep Divorce, Fighting in Public & Boundaries for Childbirth
Podcast
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Contrary to beliefs, getting married young can actually set a person ahead in life as it requires an extra level of maturity at a young age, leading to successful outcomes.
11:16 - 15:39 (04:22)
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Marriage
Summary

Contrary to beliefs, getting married young can actually set a person ahead in life as it requires an extra level of maturity at a young age, leading to successful outcomes.

Episode
Sleep Divorce, Fighting in Public & Boundaries for Childbirth
Podcast
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
A new dad shares his advice on getting childcare organized before the arrival of your baby, whether it means hiring a babysitter or working out a plan with your parents.
15:40 - 22:37 (06:57)
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Parenting
Summary

A new dad shares his advice on getting childcare organized before the arrival of your baby, whether it means hiring a babysitter or working out a plan with your parents.

Episode
Sleep Divorce, Fighting in Public & Boundaries for Childbirth
Podcast
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Keeping friendships from college can be challenging when everyone moves away and has different schedules, but having open communication and approaching tough conversations can help.
22:37 - 26:56 (04:18)
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Friendship
Summary

Keeping friendships from college can be challenging when everyone moves away and has different schedules, but having open communication and approaching tough conversations can help. It is important to recognize that friendships may evolve but can still be meaningful in different ways.

Episode
Sleep Divorce, Fighting in Public & Boundaries for Childbirth
Podcast
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
The speaker shares her experience of gaining confidence as a new mom by going out with her baby and doing activities like going to parks and stores by herself.
26:56 - 31:15 (04:19)
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Motherhood
Summary

The speaker shares her experience of gaining confidence as a new mom by going out with her baby and doing activities like going to parks and stores by herself.

Episode
Sleep Divorce, Fighting in Public & Boundaries for Childbirth
Podcast
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
The importance of discussing marriage expectations with your partner and setting a timeline is highlighted.
31:15 - 34:58 (03:42)
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Relationships
Summary

The importance of discussing marriage expectations with your partner and setting a timeline is highlighted. It is also suggested that being subtle about this topic may not be the best approach.

Episode
Sleep Divorce, Fighting in Public & Boundaries for Childbirth
Podcast
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
The speaker talks about unexpected visits from parents and how they feel it is important to update them regularly but dropping in unannounced is not a sweet surprise.
34:58 - 38:37 (03:38)
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Parental Visits
Summary

The speaker talks about unexpected visits from parents and how they feel it is important to update them regularly but dropping in unannounced is not a sweet surprise.

Episode
Sleep Divorce, Fighting in Public & Boundaries for Childbirth
Podcast
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
A listener asks for advice on how to involve their partner's parents in their relationship in a healthy way while still maintaining boundaries.
38:37 - 42:38 (04:01)
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Relationships
Summary

A listener asks for advice on how to involve their partner's parents in their relationship in a healthy way while still maintaining boundaries. The hosts discuss the importance of communication and setting boundaries to establish a positive dynamic.

Episode
Sleep Divorce, Fighting in Public & Boundaries for Childbirth
Podcast
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
In this conversation, the speaker emphasizes the importance of not discussing private relationship disputes or problems in public, rather having conversations in private with a spouse, partner, or counselor.
42:38 - 47:53 (05:14)
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Relationship Advice
Summary

In this conversation, the speaker emphasizes the importance of not discussing private relationship disputes or problems in public, rather having conversations in private with a spouse, partner, or counselor.

Episode
Sleep Divorce, Fighting in Public & Boundaries for Childbirth
Podcast
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
In this podcast, the guest discusses the traditional mindset of prioritizing relationships over work and the idea that successful marriages can start off imperfectly.
47:53 - 50:37 (02:44)
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Relationships
Summary

In this podcast, the guest discusses the traditional mindset of prioritizing relationships over work and the idea that successful marriages can start off imperfectly. Examples are given of the commitment and work that goes into maintaining a healthy relationship.

Episode
Sleep Divorce, Fighting in Public & Boundaries for Childbirth
Podcast
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
The speaker advises taking a long-term view towards relationships and not letting a breakup discourage future attempts at love and marriage.
50:37 - 57:04 (06:26)
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Relationships
Summary

The speaker advises taking a long-term view towards relationships and not letting a breakup discourage future attempts at love and marriage. It is important to think about what both partners want and make sure that their goals align.

Episode
Sleep Divorce, Fighting in Public & Boundaries for Childbirth
Podcast
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
The hosts of the Unplanned podcast thank their viewers and listeners for their support.
57:04 - 57:49 (00:45)
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Unplanned podcast
Summary

The hosts of the Unplanned podcast thank their viewers and listeners for their support. They read a review from a follower who found comfort in their discussions about relationships and are wishing her the best for her upcoming wedding.

Episode
Sleep Divorce, Fighting in Public & Boundaries for Childbirth
Podcast
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby