Episode
The HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
1:40:45
Published: Wed Nov 30 2022
Description
Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has taught others how to transform their relationships with themselves. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousands through her teaching and writing revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they transform their relationships with others. Be sure to check out Jillian’s new podcast, “Jillian On Love”In this episode you will learn, The three biggest reasons that most relationships fail.The makings of a toxic relationship and how to avoid them.Conversations to have with your partner to create a conscious relationship.How the path to healing comes from being in the right relationship.Tips on how to peacefully end a relationship.For more, go to lewishowes.com/1355
Chapters
In this episode of the School of Greatness, Lewis Howes discusses the role of self-love in determining the success of one's relationships and identifies the lack of connection, emotional intimacy and understanding as the main reasons why relationships fail.
00:00 - 01:00 (01:00)
Summary
In this episode of the School of Greatness, Lewis Howes discusses the role of self-love in determining the success of one's relationships and identifies the lack of connection, emotional intimacy and understanding as the main reasons why relationships fail.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Learning to minimize and manage one's stress can help partners show more affection, attention, and presence, which are essential aspects of a healthy relationship.
01:00 - 08:41 (07:41)
Summary
Learning to minimize and manage one's stress can help partners show more affection, attention, and presence, which are essential aspects of a healthy relationship.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker struggles in receiving feedback especially when they feel like they have been showing up fully in the relationship.
08:41 - 15:14 (06:33)
Summary
The speaker struggles in receiving feedback especially when they feel like they have been showing up fully in the relationship. Emotional intimacy can help partners understand what is important to each other and give constructive feedback.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
In order to minimize stress and have a more peaceful and harmonious relationship, it's important to find alignment on love languages so that the way you show love is how your partner wants to receive it.
15:14 - 19:11 (03:57)
Summary
In order to minimize stress and have a more peaceful and harmonious relationship, it's important to find alignment on love languages so that the way you show love is how your partner wants to receive it. This will help to minimize friction and stay in a state of peace instead of stress.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker shares eight steps to building a healthy and conscious relationship, including communication, vulnerability, and service to each other and the community.
19:11 - 23:38 (04:26)
Summary
The speaker shares eight steps to building a healthy and conscious relationship, including communication, vulnerability, and service to each other and the community.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker discusses the importance of knowing and committing to a compatible sexual relationship before entering a committed relationship to avoid chemical confusion, as the latter can be very difficult to overcome.
23:38 - 25:21 (01:42)
Summary
The speaker discusses the importance of knowing and committing to a compatible sexual relationship before entering a committed relationship to avoid chemical confusion, as the latter can be very difficult to overcome.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker emphasizes the importance of having a mentor or a spiritual teacher who can guide and support individuals in their personal and spiritual growth.
25:21 - 29:35 (04:14)
Summary
The speaker emphasizes the importance of having a mentor or a spiritual teacher who can guide and support individuals in their personal and spiritual growth. They can become like a sibling and offer a valuable relationship to be appreciated.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The importance of being authentic and true to oneself in relationships and conversations is highlighted in this podcast episode, emphasizing the need to recognize and respect each other's journeys.
29:35 - 33:33 (03:57)
Summary
The importance of being authentic and true to oneself in relationships and conversations is highlighted in this podcast episode, emphasizing the need to recognize and respect each other's journeys.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The term "toxic" is overused and often incorrectly applied to relationships.
33:33 - 38:07 (04:34)
Summary
The term "toxic" is overused and often incorrectly applied to relationships. In reality, toxic relationships involve two individuals consistently bringing out the worst in each other and can leave one partner struggling with low self-worth.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker believes in being completely honest with a potential partner before entering a relationship, in order to create an environment where both parties feel safe and authentic.
38:07 - 43:34 (05:26)
Summary
The speaker believes in being completely honest with a potential partner before entering a relationship, in order to create an environment where both parties feel safe and authentic. They ask the question, "if sex was off the table, would I still want to stay in this relationship?"
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The podcast discusses the importance of tolerating imperfections in relationships and not having high expectations about other people's physical appearance.
43:34 - 48:50 (05:15)
Summary
The podcast discusses the importance of tolerating imperfections in relationships and not having high expectations about other people's physical appearance. It also highlights how falling in love with someone unexpected can be more powerful than adhering to the traditional roles seen in our parents' relationships.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The podcast discusses how to maintain a healthy intimate relationship in the long-term by putting certain practices into place, including date nights and spending time apart.
48:50 - 53:10 (04:20)
Summary
The podcast discusses how to maintain a healthy intimate relationship in the long-term by putting certain practices into place, including date nights and spending time apart. Additionally, the importance of recognizing that sex does not mean the same thing to everyone and the significance of friendship in a relationship is discussed.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
In this conversation, the speaker discusses the importance of open communication with your partner and shares thoughts on creating agreements, like prenuptial agreements, before marriage to ensure mutual understanding and expectations.
53:10 - 1:01:11 (08:01)
Summary
In this conversation, the speaker discusses the importance of open communication with your partner and shares thoughts on creating agreements, like prenuptial agreements, before marriage to ensure mutual understanding and expectations.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
To know who is right for you in a relationship, it's important to understand your own psychology and how certain people bring out different things in you.
1:01:11 - 1:03:57 (02:46)
Summary
To know who is right for you in a relationship, it's important to understand your own psychology and how certain people bring out different things in you. If you've had a difficult life, you may need a partner who makes you feel accepted and safe.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
In this conversation, the speakers discuss the importance of self-love and creating your own joy and fulfillment in relationships, rather than relying on another person to bring all the pieces together.
1:03:57 - 1:09:27 (05:29)
Summary
In this conversation, the speakers discuss the importance of self-love and creating your own joy and fulfillment in relationships, rather than relying on another person to bring all the pieces together.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
A comedian reflects on the role of yoga in their relationship, including feeling in love eight months in and joking that their yoga teacher should send them a bill due to the career they had based on the relationship.
1:09:27 - 1:12:40 (03:12)
Summary
A comedian reflects on the role of yoga in their relationship, including feeling in love eight months in and joking that their yoga teacher should send them a bill due to the career they had based on the relationship.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
In order to end a relationship in peace, it's important to focus on becoming a better person and improving oneself rather than relying on companionship or expecting the other person to change.
1:12:40 - 1:17:49 (05:08)
Summary
In order to end a relationship in peace, it's important to focus on becoming a better person and improving oneself rather than relying on companionship or expecting the other person to change.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker talks about how to move on from past relationships and see them in a different light to learn from them.
1:17:49 - 1:20:27 (02:38)
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The speaker talks about how to move on from past relationships and see them in a different light to learn from them. Holding onto past relationships can end up pulling you down.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Theories propose that individuals pick partners that remind them of a troubled parent or relationship so they can work through those issues.
1:20:27 - 1:24:47 (04:20)
Summary
Theories propose that individuals pick partners that remind them of a troubled parent or relationship so they can work through those issues. The healing process includes finding peace with the relationship and understanding that parents are flawed human beings who did their best.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The use of social media and the need for instant gratification may impact the ability of millennials to form healthy relationships.
1:24:47 - 1:29:49 (05:01)
Summary
The use of social media and the need for instant gratification may impact the ability of millennials to form healthy relationships. Overcoming these challenges will be crucial for individuals to enter into healthy relationships moving forward.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker shares her journey of becoming a coach and creating content to help women feel more empowered in their relationships and take more responsibility.
1:29:49 - 1:34:16 (04:27)
Summary
The speaker shares her journey of becoming a coach and creating content to help women feel more empowered in their relationships and take more responsibility. She emphasizes the importance of face-to-face communication and navigating emotions in person.
EpisodeThe HARSH Truth About Relationships That You Need To Know EP 1355
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The podcast host shares her experience with pain and loss, from going through a divorce to losing her mother, and how she finds meaning in these experiences by using them to serve others with wisdom.
1:34:17 - 1:40:38 (06:21)
Summary
The podcast host shares her experience with pain and loss, from going through a divorce to losing her mother, and how she finds meaning in these experiences by using them to serve others with wisdom.