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Attachment issues and self-abandonment
21:26 - 28:39 (07:13)
The hypervigilance of a partner's needs can lead to self-abandonment if they feel uncomfortable disconnecting. Individuals can try to resolve their attachment issues through someone reflective of their primary caregivers and those who grew up without significant attunement and co-regulation may have potent initial reactions to "love bombing."
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This episode explores the effects of childhood experiences on brain development and the lasting impact it has on our adult relationships, including the potent effect of neurochemicals released in early stages of love when someone finally makes them feel special after growing up without attunement.
21:26 - 25:20 (03:54)
Summary
This episode explores the effects of childhood experiences on brain development and the lasting impact it has on our adult relationships, including the potent effect of neurochemicals released in early stages of love when someone finally makes them feel special after growing up without attunement.
ChapterAttachment issues and self-abandonment
Episode#489 - Jessica Baum - How To Deal With Being Anxiously Attached
PodcastModern Wisdom
People who are hypervigilant of their partner's needs and fear abandonment may self-abandon or slip into rage.
25:20 - 28:39 (03:19)
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People who are hypervigilant of their partner's needs and fear abandonment may self-abandon or slip into rage. For anxious individuals, self regulation or co-regulation is necessary for self soothing later on.