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Attachment, Sex Work, and the Value of Sex
This episode discusses the connection between attachment issues and engaging in sexual behavior with multiple partners, as well as the idea that sex work can be empowering for some women. The value of sex is also explored within this context.
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This episode discusses how women who have self-doubts about their worth may engage in sex on the first date with multiple partners as a way of gaining approval and attention.
13:14 - 14:06 (00:52)
Summary
This episode discusses how women who have self-doubts about their worth may engage in sex on the first date with multiple partners as a way of gaining approval and attention. Additionally, the episode explores how women react when they learn about men's shallow arousal tendencies.
ChapterAttachment, Sex Work, and the Value of Sex
Episode#310 - Adam Lane Smith - 15 Harsh Psychology Truths
PodcastModern Wisdom
Women often mistake male sexual attention for love and affection, partly because they quickly learn how the male sex drive operates.
14:06 - 15:30 (01:23)
Summary
Women often mistake male sexual attention for love and affection, partly because they quickly learn how the male sex drive operates. They understand that when a man wants sex, it means he needs something in that moment, which they wrongly interpret as the man showing love and attention.
ChapterAttachment, Sex Work, and the Value of Sex
Episode#310 - Adam Lane Smith - 15 Harsh Psychology Truths
PodcastModern Wisdom
According to a couples therapist, 70% of divorces are initiated by women and in every case where a husband was involved in a divorce, he had attachment issues.
15:30 - 16:07 (00:36)
Summary
According to a couples therapist, 70% of divorces are initiated by women and in every case where a husband was involved in a divorce, he had attachment issues. Men with such issues either stick around until they find something better or choose to coast or stew.