The speaker believes that creating a relationship centered around working together towards a common goal with the help of an accountability therapist or coach can foster a sense of togetherness and alignment, and ultimately strengthen the partnership.
The idea that love should come naturally and work should be unpleasant is a common misconception. Love and relationships require effort and work, just like any career or job.
Starting a relationship with conscious conversations about the future and working together with an accountability therapist or coach can create a sense of togetherness, alignment, and agreements, which is important to maintain a great relationship.