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Coffee Discounts and Feeling Like a Fraud
1:19:31 - 1:23:49 (04:17)
The speaker discusses the pressure to appear successful and how it can lead to feeling like a fraud, and shares a personal anecdote about asking for a discount on coffee.
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The act of asking for a 10% discount on coffee has become a popular online exercise, but it's not about the discount; it's about overcoming our fear of rejection and owning our choices.
1:19:31 - 1:21:37 (02:05)
Psychology
Summary
The act of asking for a 10% discount on coffee has become a popular online exercise, but it's not about the discount; it's about overcoming our fear of rejection and owning our choices.
ChapterCoffee Discounts and Feeling Like a Fraud
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We tend to overestimate how much attention people pay to us, causing fear in expressing our opinions, thoughts or concerns for fear of judgement.
1:21:37 - 1:23:49 (02:12)
Psychology
Summary
We tend to overestimate how much attention people pay to us, causing fear in expressing our opinions, thoughts or concerns for fear of judgement. However, in reality, people actually pay much less attention to us than we think they do.