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Contempt in Relationships and Divorce Predictions
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Dr. John Gottman identified four things that could predict who would end up in divorce and the top one of those was contempt. Online dating communities often display negativity and vitriol toward the opposite sex, which is counterproductive for forming healthy relationships.
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The culture of identity politics leads people to see those of a different sex or economic status as their adversary.
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The culture of identity politics leads people to see those of a different sex or economic status as their adversary. This mindset is fueled by envy and bitterness, and it ultimately prevents us from achieving true equality.
ChapterContempt in Relationships and Divorce Predictions
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Researchers have identified that contempt is one of the main predictors of divorce, along with other habits such as criticism, defensiveness, and stonewalling.
1:30:46 - 1:34:12 (03:25)
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Researchers have identified that contempt is one of the main predictors of divorce, along with other habits such as criticism, defensiveness, and stonewalling. Holding massive contempt for the partner from the beginning of the relationship may sabotage it from the start, as it is counterproductive and not conducive to a healthy relationship.