Chapter

Dealing with Infidelity in Relationships
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1:00:43 - 1:05:45 (05:01)

Esther Perel discusses the aftermath of infidelity in relationships, including how an affair can serve as a wake-up call and the long process of rebuilding trust.

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Acknowledging remorse and guilt is essential in a relationship after a partner has had an affair.
1:00:43 - 1:01:59 (01:16)
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Relationships
Summary

Acknowledging remorse and guilt is essential in a relationship after a partner has had an affair. While guilt is an accountability to the other person, shame is more self-involved and can prevent empathy towards the partner's feelings.

Chapter
Dealing with Infidelity in Relationships
Episode
The SECRET To Desire In A Long-Term Relationship w/Esther Perel EP 1236
Podcast
The School of Greatness
The speaker discusses how to handle being the vigilante of a relationship during a crisis by allowing their partner the time and space to process their emotions without rushing them.
1:01:59 - 1:02:47 (00:47)
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Relationship Advice
Summary

The speaker discusses how to handle being the vigilante of a relationship during a crisis by allowing their partner the time and space to process their emotions without rushing them.

Chapter
Dealing with Infidelity in Relationships
Episode
The SECRET To Desire In A Long-Term Relationship w/Esther Perel EP 1236
Podcast
The School of Greatness
The process of regaining trust after infidelity can be a lengthy and ambiguous period for both partners, with conflicting emotions and uncertainty about the future.
1:02:47 - 1:04:41 (01:53)
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relationships
Summary

The process of regaining trust after infidelity can be a lengthy and ambiguous period for both partners, with conflicting emotions and uncertainty about the future.

Chapter
Dealing with Infidelity in Relationships
Episode
The SECRET To Desire In A Long-Term Relationship w/Esther Perel EP 1236
Podcast
The School of Greatness
Affairs can either be the cause or consequence of a dying relationship while contempt is found to be the biggest killer for both short-term and long-term relationships, according to relationship researcher John Gopman.
1:04:41 - 1:05:45 (01:04)
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Relationships
Summary

Affairs can either be the cause or consequence of a dying relationship while contempt is found to be the biggest killer for both short-term and long-term relationships, according to relationship researcher John Gopman.

Chapter
Dealing with Infidelity in Relationships
Episode
The SECRET To Desire In A Long-Term Relationship w/Esther Perel EP 1236
Podcast
The School of Greatness