In relationships, it is important to listen to oneself when it comes to essential things such as having children or the type of relationship one desires, and not to enter into a relationship hoping the other person will change their mind. Similarly, one should pay attention to their needs and desires when it comes to physical intimacy, as it can be a vital language that should be understood and respected by both partners.
A good relationship should have stability, security, safety, predictability, and the freedom to go and explore the world, sometimes together and sometimes apart. Ambivalence can arise when contradictory thoughts and feelings arise about certain aspects of the relationship that one individual may not fully accept or like.
The speaker advises listening to oneself in regards to important relationship factors such as physical intimacy, desire for children or not, marriage, and monogamy.
This episode discusses the topic of partners with different religious beliefs and how they can navigate the situation by being accepting of each other's choices and beliefs.