Episode
Why 80% Of Relationships Don't Work & How To Fix Them [MASTERCLASS] EP 1393
1:03:33
Published: Mon Feb 13 2023
Description
https://lewishowes.com/mindset - Order a copy of my new book The Greatness Mindset today!In today’s masterclass, four relationship experts share why 80% of relationships fail and how you can turn breakdown into breakthrough in all of your relationships.In this episode, you will learn:Esther Perel, Psychotherapist & Best-selling Author, explains how to have healthier relationships and create a new foundations for meaningful love.Gary John Bishop, New York Times Best-selling Author, shares his secret on how to thrive in a relationship and maintaining long lasting love for decades.Jillian Turecki, Certified Relationship Coach & Podcast Host, goes through the biggest relationship mistakes to avoid and how we can be accountable for our actions in our relationships.Eric Barker, Best-selling Author, “Plays Well With Others”, explains the key to finding true love and how to express our emotions in a healthy way.For more go to www.lewishowes.com/1393Full Episodes:Esther PerelGary John BishopJillian TureckiEric Barker
Chapters
Lewis Howes invites listeners to join his book launch team and receive exclusive perks, while also discussing the importance of finding one's true love and building a beautiful relationship.
00:00 - 01:54 (01:54)
Summary
Lewis Howes invites listeners to join his book launch team and receive exclusive perks, while also discussing the importance of finding one's true love and building a beautiful relationship.
EpisodeWhy 80% Of Relationships Don't Work & How To Fix Them [MASTERCLASS] EP 1393
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The focus on physical attraction and swiping culture on dating apps has led to the perception of people as products to be evaluated rather than potential partners to connect with.
01:54 - 06:34 (04:40)
Summary
The focus on physical attraction and swiping culture on dating apps has led to the perception of people as products to be evaluated rather than potential partners to connect with. However, finding one person for everything is a myth, and true intimacy and connection go beyond just physical attraction.
EpisodeWhy 80% Of Relationships Don't Work & How To Fix Them [MASTERCLASS] EP 1393
PodcastThe School of Greatness
All relationships involve contradictory feelings and thoughts, which means that relational ambivalence is part and parcel of all our relationships.
06:34 - 12:30 (05:56)
Summary
All relationships involve contradictory feelings and thoughts, which means that relational ambivalence is part and parcel of all our relationships. It is important to understand what is important to you and not get involved with someone hoping things will change.
EpisodeWhy 80% Of Relationships Don't Work & How To Fix Them [MASTERCLASS] EP 1393
PodcastThe School of Greatness
In relationships, it is important to listen to oneself when it comes to essential things such as having children or the type of relationship one desires, and not to enter into a relationship hoping the other person will change their mind.
12:30 - 17:50 (05:19)
Summary
In relationships, it is important to listen to oneself when it comes to essential things such as having children or the type of relationship one desires, and not to enter into a relationship hoping the other person will change their mind. Similarly, one should pay attention to their needs and desires when it comes to physical intimacy, as it can be a vital language that should be understood and respected by both partners.
EpisodeWhy 80% Of Relationships Don't Work & How To Fix Them [MASTERCLASS] EP 1393
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker describes a shift in mindset that allowed her to fully accept and trust the decisions and lifestyle of others without feeling jealous, which occurred about five or six years ago.
17:50 - 22:46 (04:56)
Summary
The speaker describes a shift in mindset that allowed her to fully accept and trust the decisions and lifestyle of others without feeling jealous, which occurred about five or six years ago.
EpisodeWhy 80% Of Relationships Don't Work & How To Fix Them [MASTERCLASS] EP 1393
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The key to a healthy and long-lasting relationship is focusing on the present moment instead of thinking too much about the future.
22:46 - 25:27 (02:40)
Summary
The key to a healthy and long-lasting relationship is focusing on the present moment instead of thinking too much about the future. It's important to keep showing up every day, rather than just trying to make it last for the sake of longevity.
EpisodeWhy 80% Of Relationships Don't Work & How To Fix Them [MASTERCLASS] EP 1393
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker emphasizes the importance of relating to your words and developing a strong relationship with what you say to be successful in any area of life.
25:27 - 28:13 (02:45)
Summary
The speaker emphasizes the importance of relating to your words and developing a strong relationship with what you say to be successful in any area of life.
EpisodeWhy 80% Of Relationships Don't Work & How To Fix Them [MASTERCLASS] EP 1393
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The host discusses the idea of producing authentic wealth and the importance of following through with declarations, even if you don't know how to achieve them initially.
28:13 - 33:13 (04:59)
Summary
The host discusses the idea of producing authentic wealth and the importance of following through with declarations, even if you don't know how to achieve them initially.
EpisodeWhy 80% Of Relationships Don't Work & How To Fix Them [MASTERCLASS] EP 1393
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Mastin Kipp explains how completing the first 20 years of life is vital to personal growth and how not taking things as personal leads to radical change in relationships.
33:13 - 36:41 (03:28)
Summary
Mastin Kipp explains how completing the first 20 years of life is vital to personal growth and how not taking things as personal leads to radical change in relationships.
EpisodeWhy 80% Of Relationships Don't Work & How To Fix Them [MASTERCLASS] EP 1393
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-love in a relationship, stating that while partners should root for each other, they cannot pave the path for their partners and should not compromise on their values and vision for the relationship.
36:41 - 44:35 (07:53)
Summary
The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-love in a relationship, stating that while partners should root for each other, they cannot pave the path for their partners and should not compromise on their values and vision for the relationship.
EpisodeWhy 80% Of Relationships Don't Work & How To Fix Them [MASTERCLASS] EP 1393
PodcastThe School of Greatness
An individual shares their experience of attending Halloween Horror Nights, where they were given scary masks and faced the disappointment of not being recognized by their friend.
44:35 - 49:21 (04:45)
Summary
An individual shares their experience of attending Halloween Horror Nights, where they were given scary masks and faced the disappointment of not being recognized by their friend.
EpisodeWhy 80% Of Relationships Don't Work & How To Fix Them [MASTERCLASS] EP 1393
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The benefits of connecting people with each other extend far beyond friendship, thanks to new ideas, potential jobs and opportunities.
49:21 - 58:52 (09:31)
Summary
The benefits of connecting people with each other extend far beyond friendship, thanks to new ideas, potential jobs and opportunities. Making a valuable introduction to someone can change the trajectory of their career, and the more people connect with others, the less lonely they feel.
EpisodeWhy 80% Of Relationships Don't Work & How To Fix Them [MASTERCLASS] EP 1393
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Boosting the signal of love by seeing your partner as better than they are not only predicts happiness but also the duration and success of a relationship.
58:52 - 1:02:15 (03:23)
Summary
Boosting the signal of love by seeing your partner as better than they are not only predicts happiness but also the duration and success of a relationship.
EpisodeWhy 80% Of Relationships Don't Work & How To Fix Them [MASTERCLASS] EP 1393
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The ability to sustain the idealization of a person is a great sign of true love.
1:02:15 - 1:03:43 (01:27)
Summary
The ability to sustain the idealization of a person is a great sign of true love.