Chapter

Negotiating Relationships in Polyamory
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1:22:30 - 1:33:32 (11:01)

This podcast episode delves into the importance of communication, negotiation, and fluidity in polyamorous relationships. The contrast between the "tell me everything" approach versus the need for negotiation is also discussed.

Clips
The fear of abandonment can be triggered by childhood trauma, causing feelings of insecurity and attachment issues in adulthood.
1:22:30 - 1:24:08 (01:37)
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Childhood Trauma
Summary

The fear of abandonment can be triggered by childhood trauma, causing feelings of insecurity and attachment issues in adulthood. This can lead individuals to struggle with feeling like they are not enough for their partner and desiring more than what their partner can give them.

Chapter
Negotiating Relationships in Polyamory
Episode
#463: Esther Perel — The Relationship Episode: Sex, Love, Polyamory, Marriage, and More (Repost)
Podcast
The Tim Ferriss Show
Fluidity in relationships can be additive when both individuals share the same curiosity.
1:24:08 - 1:27:25 (03:17)
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Polyamory
Summary

Fluidity in relationships can be additive when both individuals share the same curiosity. The likelihood of disappearing is high when one person is seeing more people than the other, and clear communication can mitigate this issue.

Chapter
Negotiating Relationships in Polyamory
Episode
#463: Esther Perel — The Relationship Episode: Sex, Love, Polyamory, Marriage, and More (Repost)
Podcast
The Tim Ferriss Show
In this podcast, the speaker shares a story of a man who revealed that he has an open relationship with his wife, where they use a quarterly report card system to gauge their performance in four categories: lover, husband, provider, and father.
1:27:25 - 1:28:33 (01:07)
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Open relationships
Summary

In this podcast, the speaker shares a story of a man who revealed that he has an open relationship with his wife, where they use a quarterly report card system to gauge their performance in four categories: lover, husband, provider, and father.

Chapter
Negotiating Relationships in Polyamory
Episode
#463: Esther Perel — The Relationship Episode: Sex, Love, Polyamory, Marriage, and More (Repost)
Podcast
The Tim Ferriss Show
This podcast discusses how creative thinking, thoughtfulness, and shared complicity can be beneficial in negotiating relationships, especially in contrast to the traditional "tell me everything" polyamorous relationships.
1:28:33 - 1:33:32 (04:58)
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Relationships
Summary

This podcast discusses how creative thinking, thoughtfulness, and shared complicity can be beneficial in negotiating relationships, especially in contrast to the traditional "tell me everything" polyamorous relationships.

Chapter
Negotiating Relationships in Polyamory
Episode
#463: Esther Perel — The Relationship Episode: Sex, Love, Polyamory, Marriage, and More (Repost)
Podcast
The Tim Ferriss Show