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Not All Men... Until They Have a Daughter
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45:40 - 54:03 (08:23)

The common trope of "not all men" falls apart when men with daughters suddenly become protective and start warning their daughters to stay away from boys and men.

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The concept of "not all men" is often used as a defense against generalizations about men, but it can also be a hypocritical stance when men turn around and perpetuate the same negative stereotypes.
45:40 - 46:44 (01:04)
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gender issues
Summary

The concept of "not all men" is often used as a defense against generalizations about men, but it can also be a hypocritical stance when men turn around and perpetuate the same negative stereotypes.

Chapter
Not All Men... Until They Have a Daughter
Episode
72. Attachment styles, non-negotiables and dating men ft. Chidera Eggerue
Podcast
The Psychology of your 20’s
The key to happiness in relationships, particularly for women who date men, lies in having agency and taking responsibility for your own desires and needs and consciously evaluating the behavior of potential partners.
46:44 - 48:12 (01:27)
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Relationships
Summary

The key to happiness in relationships, particularly for women who date men, lies in having agency and taking responsibility for your own desires and needs and consciously evaluating the behavior of potential partners. The focus should not be on demonizing men, but rather on being aware of their actions and their words.

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Not All Men... Until They Have a Daughter
Episode
72. Attachment styles, non-negotiables and dating men ft. Chidera Eggerue
Podcast
The Psychology of your 20’s
Accepting help and care from loved ones is crucial in practicing healthy interdependence.
48:13 - 51:52 (03:38)
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Healthy Interdependence
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Accepting help and care from loved ones is crucial in practicing healthy interdependence. Non-negotiables can help in finding caring and supportive partners instead of toxic ones.

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Not All Men... Until They Have a Daughter
Episode
72. Attachment styles, non-negotiables and dating men ft. Chidera Eggerue
Podcast
The Psychology of your 20’s
The conversation revolves around the importance of financial independence in relationships.
51:52 - 54:03 (02:11)
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Relationships
Summary

The conversation revolves around the importance of financial independence in relationships. Being hyper-independent allows for making financial decisions, and it's a non-negotiable trait for some people.

Chapter
Not All Men... Until They Have a Daughter
Episode
72. Attachment styles, non-negotiables and dating men ft. Chidera Eggerue
Podcast
The Psychology of your 20’s