Chapter
Overcoming the Chore of Having an Orgasm in Sex
1:10:04 - 1:18:36 (08:32)
A therapist explains the importance of intimacy and recognizing a partner's desire for their female partner to have an orgasm. She cautions against women believing that achieving an orgasm is a chore for their male partners and discusses how upbringing can influence attachment issues in men and women's sexual experiences.
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The podcast discusses the importance of emotional intimacy in achieving and giving orgasms, especially for younger women who may feel that they have to work for it or that it's a chore.
1:10:04 - 1:12:48 (02:44)
Summary
The podcast discusses the importance of emotional intimacy in achieving and giving orgasms, especially for younger women who may feel that they have to work for it or that it's a chore. By recognizing the importance of emotional intimacy, partners can have a more satisfying sexual life.
ChapterOvercoming the Chore of Having an Orgasm in Sex
Episode#310 - Adam Lane Smith - 15 Harsh Psychology Truths
PodcastModern Wisdom
The pressure to perform and achieve orgasm during sex can often lead to overthinking and ruin the experience.
1:12:48 - 1:14:50 (02:01)
Summary
The pressure to perform and achieve orgasm during sex can often lead to overthinking and ruin the experience. Women, in particular, may find themselves caught in a narrative of questioning what they are getting out of it, which can spiral out of control.
ChapterOvercoming the Chore of Having an Orgasm in Sex
Episode#310 - Adam Lane Smith - 15 Harsh Psychology Truths
PodcastModern Wisdom
Attachment styles are formed at a young age and can heavily impact a man's relationships later in life.
1:14:50 - 1:16:09 (01:19)
Summary
Attachment styles are formed at a young age and can heavily impact a man's relationships later in life. Men who were raised by mothers with attachment issues may struggle with intimacy and pleasing their partners, leading to difficulties in their romantic relationships.
ChapterOvercoming the Chore of Having an Orgasm in Sex
Episode#310 - Adam Lane Smith - 15 Harsh Psychology Truths
PodcastModern Wisdom
Men who use "good boy" behavior to manipulate women into granting them sexual favors may become resentful and even abusive over time.
1:16:09 - 1:18:36 (02:27)
Summary
Men who use "good boy" behavior to manipulate women into granting them sexual favors may become resentful and even abusive over time.