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Putting the Work into Yourself before Going on a Date
1:27:44 - 1:37:57 (10:12)
The speaker reflects on how many people resentfully talk about the money and time they've spent on preparing for a date that didn't work out, and suggests that putting the work into yourself, such as improving communication skills and emotional intelligence, is more important than putting the work into someone else.
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The speaker emphasizes that personal development is key in finding love as it helps individuals to become their best selves, improve communication skills, build emotional connections, and make better decisions.
1:27:44 - 1:30:04 (02:20)
Summary
The speaker emphasizes that personal development is key in finding love as it helps individuals to become their best selves, improve communication skills, build emotional connections, and make better decisions. Despite having more options, people still struggle to find satisfaction in choices made due to the belief of endless choices.
ChapterPutting the Work into Yourself before Going on a Date
EpisodeE187: World’s No.1 Matchmaker: How To FIND And KEEP Real Love!: Paul Brunson
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Having too many dating options can make it difficult for users to commit to one person and may lower the conversion rate from first date to marriage.
1:30:04 - 1:31:48 (01:43)
Summary
Having too many dating options can make it difficult for users to commit to one person and may lower the conversion rate from first date to marriage.
ChapterPutting the Work into Yourself before Going on a Date
EpisodeE187: World’s No.1 Matchmaker: How To FIND And KEEP Real Love!: Paul Brunson
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The UK's drinking culture often leads to getting drunk before a first date, which can result in meeting someone's representative rather than their true self, creating a boundary negotiation challenge.
1:31:48 - 1:34:19 (02:31)
Summary
The UK's drinking culture often leads to getting drunk before a first date, which can result in meeting someone's representative rather than their true self, creating a boundary negotiation challenge.
ChapterPutting the Work into Yourself before Going on a Date
EpisodeE187: World’s No.1 Matchmaker: How To FIND And KEEP Real Love!: Paul Brunson
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Lower expectations and investment can lead to a potentially higher return on investment, while bonding over caffeine or endorphins can lead to great conversation and success preparation, according to a podcast speaker.
1:34:20 - 1:35:40 (01:20)
Summary
Lower expectations and investment can lead to a potentially higher return on investment, while bonding over caffeine or endorphins can lead to great conversation and success preparation, according to a podcast speaker. For women wanting to initiate a date, suggesting coffee during the day can help filter out men who may only be interested in sex.
ChapterPutting the Work into Yourself before Going on a Date
EpisodeE187: World’s No.1 Matchmaker: How To FIND And KEEP Real Love!: Paul Brunson
PodcastThe Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The unrealistic expectations with dating are making people unhappy with the process, focus on the chemistry instead.
1:35:40 - 1:37:57 (02:16)
Summary
The unrealistic expectations with dating are making people unhappy with the process, focus on the chemistry instead.