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The Benefits of Arranged Marriages
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06:10 - 14:52 (08:42)

The speaker suggests that arranged marriages tend to be more successful in the long run compared to love-based marriages because elders can help select partners with traits that will be appreciated over time.

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The feeling from drugs, like endorphin and dopamine, that people feel when getting married is not the same that they will feel 20, 30 or 40 years down the line.
06:10 - 09:31 (03:21)
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Arranged Marriages
Summary

The feeling from drugs, like endorphin and dopamine, that people feel when getting married is not the same that they will feel 20, 30 or 40 years down the line. Arranged marriages could be more successful because of a more logical thinking with elders involved in deciding traits that you will appreciate over time.

Chapter
The Benefits of Arranged Marriages
Episode
#366 – Shannon Curry: Johnny Depp & Amber Heard Trial, Marriage, Dating & Love
Podcast
Lex Fridman Podcast
The Gottman method for couples therapy is an evidence-based approach to relationship counseling that emphasizes the importance of a positive to negative interaction ratio in a relationship for longevity.
09:31 - 12:02 (02:30)
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Gottman method
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The Gottman method for couples therapy is an evidence-based approach to relationship counseling that emphasizes the importance of a positive to negative interaction ratio in a relationship for longevity.

Chapter
The Benefits of Arranged Marriages
Episode
#366 – Shannon Curry: Johnny Depp & Amber Heard Trial, Marriage, Dating & Love
Podcast
Lex Fridman Podcast
The importance of paying attention to your partner's bids is emphasized as everyone has different needs in a relationship.
12:02 - 14:52 (02:50)
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Relationship advice
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The importance of paying attention to your partner's bids is emphasized as everyone has different needs in a relationship. Being a therapist has shown that meeting people who you would perceive as cooler, smarter or impervious to life is a fortunate position to be in.

Chapter
The Benefits of Arranged Marriages
Episode
#366 – Shannon Curry: Johnny Depp & Amber Heard Trial, Marriage, Dating & Love
Podcast
Lex Fridman Podcast