Chapter
The Harm of Dating a Fixer
09:56 - 17:28 (07:32)
The idea of fixing someone in a relationship can create a constant bias towards seeking out people with problems to solve. The red pill's approach to relationships involves understanding our biological imperatives and fixing attachment issues.
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The need to feel loved and worthy through fixing other people's problems in relationships can create a constant bias and prevent deep and honest communication, making it difficult to form a lasting and stable relationship.
09:56 - 13:32 (03:35)
Summary
The need to feel loved and worthy through fixing other people's problems in relationships can create a constant bias and prevent deep and honest communication, making it difficult to form a lasting and stable relationship.
ChapterThe Harm of Dating a Fixer
Episode#404 - Adam Lane Smith - 13 More Harsh Psychology Truths
PodcastModern Wisdom
The Red Pill community, which applies evolutionary psychology to relationships, often creates damaged and hurt individuals who use these methods to manipulate and control their partners.
13:32 - 14:53 (01:21)
Summary
The Red Pill community, which applies evolutionary psychology to relationships, often creates damaged and hurt individuals who use these methods to manipulate and control their partners. Red Pill gurus profit off of these individuals instead of fixing the underlying problems.
ChapterThe Harm of Dating a Fixer
Episode#404 - Adam Lane Smith - 13 More Harsh Psychology Truths
PodcastModern Wisdom
Just like the red pill is not the only route towards extreme beliefs for men, there is an equivalent radical side for women such as radical feminism that can be equally concerning.
14:53 - 15:30 (00:36)
Summary
Just like the red pill is not the only route towards extreme beliefs for men, there is an equivalent radical side for women such as radical feminism that can be equally concerning.
ChapterThe Harm of Dating a Fixer
Episode#404 - Adam Lane Smith - 13 More Harsh Psychology Truths
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker believes that to fix the imbalance between genders, each gender must work towards understanding and fixing their biological imperatives.
15:30 - 17:28 (01:58)
Summary
The speaker believes that to fix the imbalance between genders, each gender must work towards understanding and fixing their biological imperatives. Choosing to blame an entire gender for negative experiences is not productive, and individuals should take responsibility for their circumstances.