The Hollywood way of thinking involves identifying ourselves with our external characteristics such as our physical appearance, socio-economic status, and gender or sexual identity. This idea leads to a constant feeling of not being enough and can be harmful to our mental health.
The idea that we are defined by our physical appearance and societal status perpetuates a continuous sense of not being enough leading to suffering; this Hollywood way of thinking. It is detrimental to spiritual growth and personal development.
The speaker discusses how to navigate someone else's victim or suffering state without taking it on by choosing a higher mindset and learning lessons through difficult experiences.