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The Importance of Multiple Sources of Connection
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20:47 - 24:15 (03:28)

It is important to have multiple sources of connection, intimacy, and friendship in order to avoid burdening one person and to have a group of people to support you. Charisma is not about standing in front of a crowd but about making people feel special in your presence.

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The key to long-term relationships is creating your own internal incentivized system.
20:47 - 22:40 (01:53)
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Relationships
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The key to long-term relationships is creating your own internal incentivized system. Good relationships are not about working 60-90 hours a week but about being there for people when they need you the most.

Chapter
The Importance of Multiple Sources of Connection
Episode
The SECRET To Desire In A Long-Term Relationship w/Esther Perel EP 1236
Podcast
The School of Greatness
Having different sources of connections and admiration is very important so that we don't expect one person to be there for everything.
22:40 - 24:15 (01:34)
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Relationships
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Having different sources of connections and admiration is very important so that we don't expect one person to be there for everything. Admiration is also a big factor that helps us see the otherness of the other person.

Chapter
The Importance of Multiple Sources of Connection
Episode
The SECRET To Desire In A Long-Term Relationship w/Esther Perel EP 1236
Podcast
The School of Greatness