Chapter
The Importance of Stress Bonding for Relationships
40:46 - 46:49 (06:03)
The podcast discusses the concept of stress bonding, and how it can create long-lasting friendships and relationships. It emphasizes the importance of not always feeling the need to be right, in order to truly connect with others.
Clips
Men tend to form lifelong friendships with their squad members during war, and women can learn to stress bond with men to have them in their lives forever.
40:46 - 42:36 (01:49)
Summary
Men tend to form lifelong friendships with their squad members during war, and women can learn to stress bond with men to have them in their lives forever. It is similar to the mechanism where men are given a purpose and the ability to achieve it during wartime.
ChapterThe Importance of Stress Bonding for Relationships
Episode#404 - Adam Lane Smith - 13 More Harsh Psychology Truths
PodcastModern Wisdom
In this podcast, the speaker highlights the importance of listening to others during conversations regardless of what we already know or assume.
42:36 - 44:12 (01:36)
Summary
In this podcast, the speaker highlights the importance of listening to others during conversations regardless of what we already know or assume. They also emphasize the lack of interest in conversations due to lack of interest in the person we are conversing with.
ChapterThe Importance of Stress Bonding for Relationships
Episode#404 - Adam Lane Smith - 13 More Harsh Psychology Truths
PodcastModern Wisdom
The episode highlights a similarity between conversations with people with attachment problems and playing video games, where the other person tries to talk to you while you hit all the right buttons to get the desired outcome.
44:12 - 45:42 (01:30)
Summary
The episode highlights a similarity between conversations with people with attachment problems and playing video games, where the other person tries to talk to you while you hit all the right buttons to get the desired outcome. This ultimately leads to the other person treating you like an object, which healthy individuals may not appreciate.
ChapterThe Importance of Stress Bonding for Relationships
Episode#404 - Adam Lane Smith - 13 More Harsh Psychology Truths
PodcastModern Wisdom
The need to constantly signal strength and independence as a single woman versus feeling worthless and scared of abandonment in a relationship can be a sign of broken attachment.
45:42 - 46:49 (01:07)
Summary
The need to constantly signal strength and independence as a single woman versus feeling worthless and scared of abandonment in a relationship can be a sign of broken attachment. This fear projection is a messaging coping mechanism to deal with the pain of lost relationships, but can be overcome with oxytocin bonding.