Chapter
The Inadvertent Painful Impact of Men's Behavior in Relationships
04:16 - 10:26 (06:09)
The speaker believes that most men are decent people who are unaware of the pain caused by their behavior in their romantic relationships. She cites examples of external traumas and major negative actions that warrant the end of a marriage but acknowledges that not all men are bad and that men also face difficulties in the institution of marriage.
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The speaker shares his experience of overcoming victim mentality in his breakup and realizing the power and influence he had in his relationship.
04:16 - 06:15 (01:58)
Summary
The speaker shares his experience of overcoming victim mentality in his breakup and realizing the power and influence he had in his relationship. He clarifies that his ex-partner did not kidnap their child, but rather they had an 18-month lead-up to the separation where they were in different bedrooms.
ChapterThe Inadvertent Painful Impact of Men's Behavior in Relationships
Episode#466 - Matthew Fray - How To Avoid Destroying Your Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
Author and therapist Esther Perel discusses how men often miscalculate how much pain their partners experience due to external trauma and how this can affect the dynamics of their relationship.
06:14 - 10:26 (04:11)
Summary
Author and therapist Esther Perel discusses how men often miscalculate how much pain their partners experience due to external trauma and how this can affect the dynamics of their relationship. She clarifies that she's not blaming men, but raising awareness of the issue.