Chapter
The Nature of Erotic Desire and How to Sustain It
The speaker is fascinated with the nature of erotic desire and how to sustain it, especially in the context of committed relationships that are often not interesting enough for women. She explains that many factors can turn women off and hinder their desire for sex, such as spending too much time on the phone, overeating, having bad days at work, and feeling numb or dead.
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The speaker discusses the challenge of keeping desire alive in long-term relationships and the misconception that women care less about sex than men in committed relationships.
10:28 - 12:19 (01:51)
Summary
The speaker discusses the challenge of keeping desire alive in long-term relationships and the misconception that women care less about sex than men in committed relationships.
ChapterThe Nature of Erotic Desire and How to Sustain It
EpisodeThe SECRET To Desire In A Long-Term Relationship w/Esther Perel EP 1236
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Esther Perel discusses how women's desire is often affected by external factors such as stress, confidence, and a need for connection rather than simply a lack of interest in sex, as well as the importance of maintaining a sense of mystery and playfulness in relationships.
12:19 - 14:37 (02:18)
Summary
Esther Perel discusses how women's desire is often affected by external factors such as stress, confidence, and a need for connection rather than simply a lack of interest in sex, as well as the importance of maintaining a sense of mystery and playfulness in relationships.