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The Paradox of Long-Term and Short-Term Mating Goals
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1:13:02 - 1:23:42 (10:40)

When it comes to dating, sometimes people have contradicting stated goals for long-term versus short-term partners. However, in the long run, it may be more important to find someone who is easygoing and kind rather than just attractive and good in bed.

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Women may use the desire for a long-term mate as an act of self-deception in order to pursue short-term mating goals, despite knowing that the partner is looking for something short-term.
1:13:02 - 1:17:47 (04:45)
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Mating Strategies
Summary

Women may use the desire for a long-term mate as an act of self-deception in order to pursue short-term mating goals, despite knowing that the partner is looking for something short-term. This can lead to confusion and an incorrect assumption that all men are only after short-term relationships.

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The Paradox of Long-Term and Short-Term Mating Goals
Episode
#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
Podcast
Modern Wisdom
A study conducted on the ideal number of sexual partners showed that around four is optimal, with larger numbers becoming less significant once distributed into the past.
1:17:47 - 1:19:13 (01:26)
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Sexual Partners
Summary

A study conducted on the ideal number of sexual partners showed that around four is optimal, with larger numbers becoming less significant once distributed into the past. Partner preferences typically vary, but common factors include attraction, compatibility, and shared interests.

Chapter
The Paradox of Long-Term and Short-Term Mating Goals
Episode
#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
Podcast
Modern Wisdom
Personality plays a crucial role in maintaining a healthy long-term relationship with someone as it becomes more important than other physical attributes over time.
1:19:14 - 1:23:42 (04:27)
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Relationships
Summary

Personality plays a crucial role in maintaining a healthy long-term relationship with someone as it becomes more important than other physical attributes over time.

Chapter
The Paradox of Long-Term and Short-Term Mating Goals
Episode
#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
Podcast
Modern Wisdom