Episode
#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
Description
Dr Andrew Thomas is a senior lecturer of psychology at Swansea University whose research focuses on sex differences and relationship preferences from an evolutionary perspective. Evolution explains a large portion of why we like the things we like. Who we're attracted to, why we fall into and out of love, how our mental state affects our mating strategies. Therefore, if you are a human who ever intends on being in a relationship, this might be useful. Expect to learn the 5 evolutionary theories which explain much of human mating, whether ChatGPT can correctly predict what traits men and women like most in each other, how many previous sexual partners people say they want their current partner to have had, how open men & women in the West are to polyamorous relationships, how sexual arousal can ruin a faithful relationship and much more... Sponsors: Get 20% discount & free shipping on your Lawnmower 4.0 at https://manscaped.com/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM) Get over 37% discount on all products site-wide from MyProtein at https://bit.ly/proteinwisdom (use code: MODERNWISDOM) Get 83% discount & 3 months free from Surfshark VPN at https://surfshark.deals/MODERNWISDOM (use code MODERNWISDOM) Extra Stuff: Follow Andrew on Twitter - https://twitter.com/DrThomasAG Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/
Chapters
A discussion about the traits men and women like most in each other, preferences for previous sexual partners, openness to polyamorous relationships, the impact of sexual arousal on a faithful relationship and more.
00:00 - 04:49 (04:49)
Summary
A discussion about the traits men and women like most in each other, preferences for previous sexual partners, openness to polyamorous relationships, the impact of sexual arousal on a faithful relationship and more.
Episode#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
PodcastModern Wisdom
Dr. David Schmitt explains how our evolutionary history impacts our mating preferences, the importance of physical attractiveness, and how mating is influenced by gender roles and cultural differences.
04:49 - 08:45 (03:55)
Summary
Dr. David Schmitt explains how our evolutionary history impacts our mating preferences, the importance of physical attractiveness, and how mating is influenced by gender roles and cultural differences.
Episode#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
PodcastModern Wisdom
This episode discusses how the rise of online dating may be due to an evolutionary mismatch, as people are overwhelmed with too many choices and use online dating as a way to cope.
08:45 - 14:28 (05:42)
Summary
This episode discusses how the rise of online dating may be due to an evolutionary mismatch, as people are overwhelmed with too many choices and use online dating as a way to cope. The traditional ways of meeting people through family, friends, work, and social groups are decreasing in popularity.
Episode#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
PodcastModern Wisdom
Dr. Pranjal Mehta discusses the evolutionary reasons behind sex differences in mate selection, explaining how males tend to compete while females tend to choose partners.
14:28 - 21:41 (07:13)
Summary
Dr. Pranjal Mehta discusses the evolutionary reasons behind sex differences in mate selection, explaining how males tend to compete while females tend to choose partners. He also explores how the costs of making an advance on a potential mate are lower for males than females, which can lead to differences in behaviors and attitudes.
Episode#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
PodcastModern Wisdom
This podcast discusses the overlay of sexual strategy and the distinction between short and long-term mating.
21:41 - 26:40 (04:58)
Summary
This podcast discusses the overlay of sexual strategy and the distinction between short and long-term mating. Although many people use a short-term strategy with the intention of transitioning into a long-term relationship, there are significant differences between the two approaches.
Episode#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
PodcastModern Wisdom
The people we surround ourselves with can greatly influence our success and personal growth.
26:40 - 31:34 (04:54)
Summary
The people we surround ourselves with can greatly influence our success and personal growth. To be successful, we should carefully choose those we associate with, seeking those with qualities and experiences we wish to emulate.
Episode#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
PodcastModern Wisdom
Arthropods have short generations, allowing for the potential to run math models to determine successful mating strategies, noting that both short and long-term strategies represent equal proportions of the gene pool.
31:34 - 39:17 (07:42)
Summary
Arthropods have short generations, allowing for the potential to run math models to determine successful mating strategies, noting that both short and long-term strategies represent equal proportions of the gene pool. These strategies can come into play for individuals making mating decisions, depending on the timing and circumstances.
Episode#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
PodcastModern Wisdom
A large proportion of women admit to using playing hard to get as a tactic when meeting someone they really like.
39:17 - 48:52 (09:35)
Summary
A large proportion of women admit to using playing hard to get as a tactic when meeting someone they really like. However, assuming someone else is playing the short term mating game can lead to harassment.
Episode#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
PodcastModern Wisdom
This podcast discusses the historical perspective of how women were told to attract men through feigned disinterest, and the impact of male sedation hypothesis on young men and their antisocial behavior, along with the issue of people like Andrew Tate stepping into the vacuum created by this situation.
48:52 - 57:10 (08:17)
Summary
This podcast discusses the historical perspective of how women were told to attract men through feigned disinterest, and the impact of male sedation hypothesis on young men and their antisocial behavior, along with the issue of people like Andrew Tate stepping into the vacuum created by this situation.
Episode#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
PodcastModern Wisdom
The idea that men naturally prefer polygamy because they can have more offspring has been debunked by two studies.
57:11 - 1:07:11 (10:00)
Summary
The idea that men naturally prefer polygamy because they can have more offspring has been debunked by two studies. Both men and women were asked about their interest in polygynous and polyandry relationships, revealing a discrepancy between what men say they want and what they actually choose.
Episode#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
PodcastModern Wisdom
The number of sexual partners a person has may impact their desirability as a short-term partner, but it does not greatly influence their attraction as a long-term partner.
1:07:11 - 1:13:02 (05:50)
Summary
The number of sexual partners a person has may impact their desirability as a short-term partner, but it does not greatly influence their attraction as a long-term partner. However, men and women may have different standards in this regard.
Episode#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
PodcastModern Wisdom
When it comes to dating, sometimes people have contradicting stated goals for long-term versus short-term partners.
1:13:02 - 1:23:42 (10:40)
Summary
When it comes to dating, sometimes people have contradicting stated goals for long-term versus short-term partners. However, in the long run, it may be more important to find someone who is easygoing and kind rather than just attractive and good in bed.
Episode#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
PodcastModern Wisdom
Women care less about physical appearance than men when it comes to mate preferences and instead prioritize pleasing disposition.
1:23:42 - 1:29:57 (06:14)
Summary
Women care less about physical appearance than men when it comes to mate preferences and instead prioritize pleasing disposition. This trait is often overlooked and underdiscussed in modern dating advice for both men and women.
Episode#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
PodcastModern Wisdom
A study reveals that physical attractiveness is not as important as political tolerance when it comes to speed dating.
1:29:57 - 1:38:38 (08:40)
Summary
A study reveals that physical attractiveness is not as important as political tolerance when it comes to speed dating. It also shows that being friends with someone before entering into a relationship is not a bad thing contrary to popular belief.
Episode#601 - Dr Andrew Thomas - Evolution's Secrets To Understanding Relationships
PodcastModern Wisdom
The transcript includes an advertisement for Manscaped, offering a discount on their Lawnmower 4.0 product.
1:38:39 - 1:40:08 (01:29)
Summary
The transcript includes an advertisement for Manscaped, offering a discount on their Lawnmower 4.0 product.