Chapter
The Power of Candor in Relationships
1:25:12 - 1:35:16 (10:03)
Practicing candor in relationships involves differentiating facts from stories, holding stories lightly, and revealing for the sake of being known rather than proving oneself right. This kind of candor also requires conscious listening to build trust and create a space where both parties are comfortable revealing themselves.
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In these times of heightened emotions and stress, it is important to have uncomfortable conversations with the people you are sheltering at home with, in order to prevent future resentment and entitlement.
1:25:12 - 1:27:42 (02:30)
Summary
In these times of heightened emotions and stress, it is important to have uncomfortable conversations with the people you are sheltering at home with, in order to prevent future resentment and entitlement. These conversations can revolve around obligations, entitlements, and past childhood experiences.
ChapterThe Power of Candor in Relationships
Episode#434: Jim Dethmer — How to Shift from Victim Consciousness, Reduce Drama, Practice Candor, Be Fully Alive, and More
PodcastThe Tim Ferriss Show
Candor involves differentiating facts from stories and being able to tell the truth without being rigid or righteous about it.
1:27:42 - 1:31:31 (03:48)
Summary
Candor involves differentiating facts from stories and being able to tell the truth without being rigid or righteous about it. This means being conscious of the stories we make up in our minds and differentiating them from the actual facts.
ChapterThe Power of Candor in Relationships
Episode#434: Jim Dethmer — How to Shift from Victim Consciousness, Reduce Drama, Practice Candor, Be Fully Alive, and More
PodcastThe Tim Ferriss Show
Practicing candor and conscious listening can help build safer and deeper relationships, as it allows individuals to differentiate fact from story, reveal themselves to be known, and deeply listen to others.
1:31:31 - 1:35:16 (03:45)
Summary
Practicing candor and conscious listening can help build safer and deeper relationships, as it allows individuals to differentiate fact from story, reveal themselves to be known, and deeply listen to others. It is a co-commitment that requires practice and vulnerability.