Chapter
Understanding Attachment Styles
27:59 - 38:02 (10:03)
The speaker discusses how even if someone has a secure attachment style, there may be an underlying secondary attachment style waiting to be activated by certain triggers. It's important to recognize your needs and not just rely on a computer telling you that you're secure.
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The human element can sometimes make us feel more secure than technology, as we still have human emotions and responsibilities that we carry, making it difficult to fully trust technology's assessment of our security.
27:59 - 30:00 (02:01)
Summary
The human element can sometimes make us feel more secure than technology, as we still have human emotions and responsibilities that we carry, making it difficult to fully trust technology's assessment of our security. Personal commitment to self-improvement is key to spreading truth and maintaining security.
ChapterUnderstanding Attachment Styles
Episode72. Attachment styles, non-negotiables and dating men ft. Chidera Eggerue
PodcastThe Psychology of your 20’s
The speaker shares her insights on how having a secure attachment style doesn't mean one can ignore their needs and highlights the existence of an underlying secondary attachment style that may get activated under certain conditions and provokes a shift in behavior towards anxious or ambivalent.
30:00 - 34:15 (04:14)
Summary
The speaker shares her insights on how having a secure attachment style doesn't mean one can ignore their needs and highlights the existence of an underlying secondary attachment style that may get activated under certain conditions and provokes a shift in behavior towards anxious or ambivalent.
ChapterUnderstanding Attachment Styles
Episode72. Attachment styles, non-negotiables and dating men ft. Chidera Eggerue
PodcastThe Psychology of your 20’s
After separating from an abuser, it is common to go through a period of healthy cynicism towards men as a way of protecting oneself from potential harm in the future until finding the love one deserves.
34:15 - 35:51 (01:35)
Summary
After separating from an abuser, it is common to go through a period of healthy cynicism towards men as a way of protecting oneself from potential harm in the future until finding the love one deserves.
ChapterUnderstanding Attachment Styles
Episode72. Attachment styles, non-negotiables and dating men ft. Chidera Eggerue
PodcastThe Psychology of your 20’s
The speaker acknowledges the need for cynicism when dealing with narcissistic men but also points out that it's not necessary to remain in a cynical place for life.
35:51 - 38:02 (02:10)
Summary
The speaker acknowledges the need for cynicism when dealing with narcissistic men but also points out that it's not necessary to remain in a cynical place for life.