Chapter
Understanding Codependency and Control
Codependency is about trying to control outcomes that aren't yours to control, and taking a disproportionate amount of responsibility for someone else's behavior. This can lead to trying to control somebody else's choices and outcomes, which is ultimately futile.
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Codependency is not just about being needy or fragile, but it is about trying to control outcomes that are not yours to control and taking responsibility for things that are not your responsibility.
34:08 - 35:36 (01:27)
Summary
Codependency is not just about being needy or fragile, but it is about trying to control outcomes that are not yours to control and taking responsibility for things that are not your responsibility. One cannot control someone's behavior or outcomes, and taking responsibility for others' decisions will only result in shame and guilt.
ChapterUnderstanding Codependency and Control
EpisodeBuild A New Identity, Own Your Truth & Love Your Life w/Jen Hatmaker EP 1113
PodcastThe School of Greatness
In this episode, the speaker discusses the shame and identity crisis associated with divorce, despite being from a long line of committed marriages.
35:36 - 36:34 (00:58)
Summary
In this episode, the speaker discusses the shame and identity crisis associated with divorce, despite being from a long line of committed marriages.