Chapter
Understanding the Love Equals Chaos Phenomenon in Narcissistic Relationships.
Narcissistic relationships are characterized by hot and cold moments that could create a trauma bond causing the person to associate chaos with love; the good days in such relationships tend to confuse victims and make them second-guess as to whether or not they are in a toxic relationship.
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In this podcast episode, the speaker discusses the importance of evaluating a relationship based on honest communication and mutual respect, with time being a key factor in building trust.
14:14 - 17:22 (03:07)
Summary
In this podcast episode, the speaker discusses the importance of evaluating a relationship based on honest communication and mutual respect, with time being a key factor in building trust. She also introduces the concept of the "wiping test" in determining the authenticity of a relationship.
ChapterUnderstanding the Love Equals Chaos Phenomenon in Narcissistic Relationships.
EpisodeHow To Heal & Move On From Narcissistic Relationships w/ Dr. Ramani EP 1344
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Trauma bonding refers to the experience of feeling love amidst chaos, hot and cold behavior, and explosiveness.
17:22 - 21:00 (03:38)
Summary
Trauma bonding refers to the experience of feeling love amidst chaos, hot and cold behavior, and explosiveness. This pattern of bonding is often a result of past experiences of having to earn love or having needs shamed and is often accompanied by self-blame.
ChapterUnderstanding the Love Equals Chaos Phenomenon in Narcissistic Relationships.
EpisodeHow To Heal & Move On From Narcissistic Relationships w/ Dr. Ramani EP 1344
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Narcissistic relationships are confusing because there can be good days and enough perfect moments to keep you hooked, but it's important to remember that it's all about alignment and timing.
21:00 - 22:15 (01:14)
Summary
Narcissistic relationships are confusing because there can be good days and enough perfect moments to keep you hooked, but it's important to remember that it's all about alignment and timing. If the alignment isn't there, they will invalidate and criticize you just as easily as they can make you feel loved and special.