The speaker discusses her preference of not being pregnant for the majority of her marriage. She also talks about her unique experience during childbirth witnessed by her birth photographer.
Abby recounts the intense experience of giving birth, where her son's shoulder got stuck and she was instructed by the doctor to push hard, causing her to repeat affirmations to herself for strength.
In a stressful situation during childbirth, the speaker found comfort in the repetition of her partner's presence. The constant affirmation helped her focus and stay grounded during a difficult moment.