In this podcast, the speaker talks about how monogamy can be a default option for people, without considering if it's the right choice for them, and how polyamory can be an alternative that better suits their personal preferences.
The philosophy of open relationships makes sense to a lot of people, but we have been raised in a society that is pretty monogamous, leading to internal conflicts and jealousy.
The speakers do not recommend open relationships and highlight the significance of sharing special moments with a partner. They mention how sometimes it's good to be bored so that you can appreciate moments that are truly enjoyable.
A study showed that in traditional paternity cultures, children with multiple fathers were more likely to survive and reproduce than those with only one father. Women in these societies have a reproductive and social strategy that increases the likelihood of their children's survival.
The speaker suggests that to achieve long-term happiness, societal conditioning and programming need to be overcome. He also highlights how the high divorce rate suggests people need to work on being happy with a long-term partner.