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The Challenges of Getting Involved in Other People's Projects
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27:20 - 28:45 (01:25)

The interviewee discusses the challenges of balancing their commitments to their own work with requests to get involved in other people's projects. While they have gotten better at saying no, there are still external pressures that make it difficult to avoid such requests.

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