Episode
#196 - Amanda Kuda - Navigating The Dating Market In 2020
1:18:15
Published: Mon Jul 13 2020
Description
Amanda Kuda is a life & mindset coach. Finding a partner that you're happy with is challenging. Add on layers of Tinder, Instagram, drunken dates & rebound sex and it's amazing that anyone manages to get into a relationship. Expect to learn Amanda's best exercises to truly identify your "type", how to find a partner who is genuinely good for you, the cheat codes for a great first date, why you keep falling for the same type of bad partners, tips for Tinder-effectiveness and much more... Sponsor: Get Surfshark VPN at https://surfshark.deals/MODERNWISDOM (Enter promo code MODERNWISDOM for 85% off and 3 Months Free) Extra Stuff: Check out Amanda's Mindful Dating Course - https://authenticallyamanda.com/mindfuldating Follow Amanda on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/authenticallyamanda/ Get my free Ultimate Life Hacks List to 10x your daily productivity → https://chriswillx.com/lifehacks/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch. Join the discussion with me and other like minded listeners in the episode comments on the MW YouTube Channel or message me... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/ModernWisdomPodcast Email: https://www.chriswillx.com/contact
Chapters
This podcast covers Amanda's expert advice for identifying your ideal partner and the best dating practices.
00:00 - 02:42 (02:42)
Summary
This podcast covers Amanda's expert advice for identifying your ideal partner and the best dating practices. Topics include understanding your type, effective online dating strategies, and tips for first dates.
Episode#196 - Amanda Kuda - Navigating The Dating Market In 2020
PodcastModern Wisdom
Taking a break from drinking can help individuals discover their true capabilities and develop genuine confidence, especially in regards to approaching potential partners or developing social skills.
02:42 - 08:46 (06:04)
Summary
Taking a break from drinking can help individuals discover their true capabilities and develop genuine confidence, especially in regards to approaching potential partners or developing social skills. This can lead to practical and unconventional actions that can improve one's marketability.
Episode#196 - Amanda Kuda - Navigating The Dating Market In 2020
PodcastModern Wisdom
The lack of self-worth or confidence can greatly affect a relationship in a negative way.
08:46 - 12:04 (03:18)
Summary
The lack of self-worth or confidence can greatly affect a relationship in a negative way. Being confident in oneself is key to having a successful and fulfilling partnership.
Episode#196 - Amanda Kuda - Navigating The Dating Market In 2020
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The use of alcohol as a coping mechanism does not reflect failure, but it is crucial to take an inventory and make a simple sheet of paper indicating what qualities we would like in a partner, including not relying on alcohol as a coping mechanism.
12:04 - 15:55 (03:50)
Summary
The use of alcohol as a coping mechanism does not reflect failure, but it is crucial to take an inventory and make a simple sheet of paper indicating what qualities we would like in a partner, including not relying on alcohol as a coping mechanism.
Episode#196 - Amanda Kuda - Navigating The Dating Market In 2020
PodcastModern Wisdom
Talking negatively about an ex or still feeling attraction towards them are red flags that indicate you may not have fully let go and need to examine your emotions.
15:55 - 22:12 (06:16)
Summary
Talking negatively about an ex or still feeling attraction towards them are red flags that indicate you may not have fully let go and need to examine your emotions. Making a list of physical traits for an ideal partner can also be problematic.
Episode#196 - Amanda Kuda - Navigating The Dating Market In 2020
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The speaker suggests adding to your list of qualifications with each person you date, in order to avoid repeating patterns and attract the right partner for you.
22:12 - 32:01 (09:49)
Summary
The speaker suggests adding to your list of qualifications with each person you date, in order to avoid repeating patterns and attract the right partner for you. Sticking to a familiar type may result in unhappiness instead of the possibility of finding something new and fulfilling.
Episode#196 - Amanda Kuda - Navigating The Dating Market In 2020
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A discussion about how some people use manifestation to attract their ideal partner on dating apps and why taking a more intentional approach to online dating may lead to more meaningful relationships.
32:01 - 37:14 (05:12)
Summary
A discussion about how some people use manifestation to attract their ideal partner on dating apps and why taking a more intentional approach to online dating may lead to more meaningful relationships.
Episode#196 - Amanda Kuda - Navigating The Dating Market In 2020
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker gives advice on online dating, suggesting that at least one full-body picture is necessary, and discouraging reporting other users for behaviors outside of their preferences.
37:14 - 41:17 (04:02)
Summary
The speaker gives advice on online dating, suggesting that at least one full-body picture is necessary, and discouraging reporting other users for behaviors outside of their preferences. Additionally, she warns against wasting time on the app.
Episode#196 - Amanda Kuda - Navigating The Dating Market In 2020
PodcastModern Wisdom
Learn tips on how to take better photos for social media without looking like a lonely person who has to take all their own photos.
41:17 - 45:16 (03:58)
Summary
Learn tips on how to take better photos for social media without looking like a lonely person who has to take all their own photos.
Episode#196 - Amanda Kuda - Navigating The Dating Market In 2020
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker emphasizes the importance of being intentional and suggests asking open-ended questions to get to know potential partners better, comparing the process to a thoughtful meetup rather than jumping right into dating.
45:16 - 50:22 (05:05)
Summary
The speaker emphasizes the importance of being intentional and suggests asking open-ended questions to get to know potential partners better, comparing the process to a thoughtful meetup rather than jumping right into dating.
Episode#196 - Amanda Kuda - Navigating The Dating Market In 2020
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker suggests using natural conversation-starters, such as suggesting a coffee shop or other location, to take the pressure off of dating app interactions and make conversations feel less contrived.
50:22 - 55:28 (05:06)
Summary
The speaker suggests using natural conversation-starters, such as suggesting a coffee shop or other location, to take the pressure off of dating app interactions and make conversations feel less contrived.
Episode#196 - Amanda Kuda - Navigating The Dating Market In 2020
PodcastModern Wisdom
The first impression you create on dating apps begins with your profile picture and can heavily influence the intentions and success of your online dating experience.
55:28 - 59:32 (04:03)
Summary
The first impression you create on dating apps begins with your profile picture and can heavily influence the intentions and success of your online dating experience. Emphasizing the importance of showcasing a genuine representation of yourself leads to overall satisfaction with the app.
Episode#196 - Amanda Kuda - Navigating The Dating Market In 2020
PodcastModern Wisdom
To find your person, you need to stand in your confidence and worth without feeling like you have to change or show up a certain way to please the other person.
59:32 - 1:08:18 (08:46)
Summary
To find your person, you need to stand in your confidence and worth without feeling like you have to change or show up a certain way to please the other person. If you find yourself attracting the same type of person, it's important to reflect on what that person is mirroring to you and recognize what aspects of yourself you need to improve on.
Episode#196 - Amanda Kuda - Navigating The Dating Market In 2020
PodcastModern Wisdom
A podcast guest shares how moving to another state to start a new life made her realize that wherever she went, there she was, and advises doing self-reflection before dating again to recognize any negative patterns in past relationships.
1:08:18 - 1:11:47 (03:28)
Summary
A podcast guest shares how moving to another state to start a new life made her realize that wherever she went, there she was, and advises doing self-reflection before dating again to recognize any negative patterns in past relationships.
Episode#196 - Amanda Kuda - Navigating The Dating Market In 2020
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The hosts discuss pleasure and upper limits within relationships and how fear can prevent someone from experiencing true happiness with the fear of getting hurt.
1:11:47 - 1:16:24 (04:37)
Summary
The hosts discuss pleasure and upper limits within relationships and how fear can prevent someone from experiencing true happiness with the fear of getting hurt.
Episode#196 - Amanda Kuda - Navigating The Dating Market In 2020
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker believes that personal development can help individuals become better partners in dating, marriage or motherhood.
1:16:24 - 1:18:03 (01:38)
Summary
The speaker believes that personal development can help individuals become better partners in dating, marriage or motherhood. She offers a course on improving dating skills and also provides guidance on setting up dating profiles and interacting on dating apps.