Episode
Enchantment with Chloe Valdary
36:26
Published: Tue Jun 29 2021
Description
What is the best way to navigate the world of diversity, equity and inclusion? Chloe Valdary’s point of view is different from the norm. The founder of the Theory of Enchantment believes the best way for us to come together is to first find love within ourselves. And the results are...enchanting. This is…A Bit of Optimism.The Theory of Enchantment - WebsiteChloe's feature in The AtlanticYouTube: http://youtube.com/simonsinekFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/simonsinekLinkedin: https://linkedin.com/in/simonsinek/Instagram: https://instagram.com/simonsinek/Twitter: https://twitter.com/simonsinekPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/officialsimonsinek/
Chapters
Chloe Valdary proposes a different approach to the standard ways in which diversity, equity, and inclusion are being discussed.
00:00 - 01:39 (01:39)
Summary
Chloe Valdary proposes a different approach to the standard ways in which diversity, equity, and inclusion are being discussed. She suggests starting with love rather than focusing on divisive tactics that may create more backlash.
EpisodeEnchantment with Chloe Valdary
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
Theory of Enchantment founder, Chloé Valdary, suggests that supremacist ways of thinking stem from an individual's inferiority complex and lack of self-refinement practices, which make them susceptible to the overcompensating impulse to feel superior to those around them.
01:39 - 10:21 (08:42)
Summary
Theory of Enchantment founder, Chloé Valdary, suggests that supremacist ways of thinking stem from an individual's inferiority complex and lack of self-refinement practices, which make them susceptible to the overcompensating impulse to feel superior to those around them. By dealing with the human condition in healthy ways, including vulnerability, mortality, and baggage, people can learn to combat supremacist ways of thinking and become more accepting of themselves and others.
EpisodeEnchantment with Chloe Valdary
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
The podcast discusses the similarities in recruitment tactics among different extremist groups and the psychological factors that contribute to it, such as the need for belonging and connection.
10:21 - 15:49 (05:27)
Summary
The podcast discusses the similarities in recruitment tactics among different extremist groups and the psychological factors that contribute to it, such as the need for belonging and connection. It also highlights the unfair burden placed on individuals who have been victims of abuse to bear the responsibility of healing and resilience.
EpisodeEnchantment with Chloe Valdary
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
Learn about practicing shadow work and applying the second principle of the theory of enchantment, criticized to uplift and empower, never to tear down or destroy.
15:49 - 23:06 (07:16)
Summary
Learn about practicing shadow work and applying the second principle of the theory of enchantment, criticized to uplift and empower, never to tear down or destroy. By identifying negative behaviors in others and within yourself, you can become less triggered by those behaviors and communicate with others in a constructive way.
EpisodeEnchantment with Chloe Valdary
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
The three principles of the Theory of Enchantment are treating people like humans, not political abstractions, being interested in the person, not the issue, and aiming for a good faith conversation.
23:06 - 30:03 (06:57)
Summary
The three principles of the Theory of Enchantment are treating people like humans, not political abstractions, being interested in the person, not the issue, and aiming for a good faith conversation.
EpisodeEnchantment with Chloe Valdary
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
The speaker shares his shift from wanting to teach people how to combat conflict to teaching people how to love, inspired by Guy Kawasaki's book Enchantment, and how he reverse engineered a framework for it.
30:03 - 35:02 (04:58)
Summary
The speaker shares his shift from wanting to teach people how to combat conflict to teaching people how to love, inspired by Guy Kawasaki's book Enchantment, and how he reverse engineered a framework for it.
EpisodeEnchantment with Chloe Valdary
PodcastA Bit of Optimism
To improve race relations, individuals need to look within themselves to address the things that make them insecure and recognize the harmful things they've said to others.
35:02 - 36:20 (01:17)
Summary
To improve race relations, individuals need to look within themselves to address the things that make them insecure and recognize the harmful things they've said to others. By choosing to learn and work on ourselves, we can serve as an example to others and become better leaders.