Episode
5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
1:44:08
Published: Fri Jun 11 2021
Description
“Love expands when our capacity to accept each other expands.” - DeVon FranklinToday’s episode is a special one. We’ve had a lot of great conversations with guests about relationships and we wanted to put together a mashup of the best segments to help you take your relationship to the next level whether you’re single, in a new relationship or are in a long-term relationship.In this episode Lewis discussed with our guests why relationships are changing now more than ever, how we’ve been sold a myth about marriage, how to rewrite the stories that are holding you back from accepting love, how to build the foundation for a strong relationship, the biggest factors that help you become a more desirable partner, and so much more!FIRST SECTION:In this section, Psychotherapist Esther Perel talks about how the roles, rules and expectations in our relationships are changing now more than ever and how we can work through that to find the right type of partner.SECOND SECTION:In this section, Best-Selling Author DeVon Franklin talks about why we’ve been sold a myth about marriage.THIRD SECTION:In this section, Therapist Lori Gottlieb talks about redefining the stories about yourself that are holding you back from finding and accepting real love.FOURTH SECTION:In this section, Pastor Michael Todd shares how to build a strong foundation in the beginning of a relationship and how to do the work to be a better partner.FIFTH SECTION:In this section, Relationship Expert Matthew Hussey shares what factors we should focus on in our life that will make you a more desirable partner.For more go to: www.lewishowes.com/1122Our guest's most recent The School of Greatness episodes:Esther Perel: www.lewishowes.com/929DeVon Franklin: www.lewishowes.com/1106Lori Gottlieb: www.lewishowes.com/1013Pastor Michael Todd: www.lewishowes.com/1087Matthew Hussey: www.lewishowes.com/944
Chapters
In this podcast, relationship expert Katherine Woodward Thomas talks about challenging the myths surrounding relationships and marriage, and how to rewrite the narratives that may be holding you back from accepting love and building strong foundations for different types of relationships.
00:00 - 03:32 (03:32)
Summary
In this podcast, relationship expert Katherine Woodward Thomas talks about challenging the myths surrounding relationships and marriage, and how to rewrite the narratives that may be holding you back from accepting love and building strong foundations for different types of relationships.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker depicts the advantages of living in a close-knit community where there are clear social roles and strong social connections.
03:32 - 06:13 (02:40)
Summary
The speaker depicts the advantages of living in a close-knit community where there are clear social roles and strong social connections.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Soft skills or emotional and social skills, once regarded as feminine, are now the new essential skills in the workplace.
06:13 - 10:44 (04:30)
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Soft skills or emotional and social skills, once regarded as feminine, are now the new essential skills in the workplace. With the rise of the self-care industry, work is no longer just a means of earning a living but is expected to provide a sense of identity, fulfillment, and development, making the self the center of focus and fragile.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The hosts discuss the definition of happiness and fulfillment within intimate long-term relationships, drawing upon their extensive experience of seeing many relationships succeed and fail over the past 35 plus years.
10:44 - 17:51 (07:06)
Summary
The hosts discuss the definition of happiness and fulfillment within intimate long-term relationships, drawing upon their extensive experience of seeing many relationships succeed and fail over the past 35 plus years.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Many 30-something females are seeking the right person for a long-term partner, but it's important to question whether you're looking for a love story or a life story.
17:51 - 21:38 (03:46)
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Many 30-something females are seeking the right person for a long-term partner, but it's important to question whether you're looking for a love story or a life story. It's possible to have a life partner that still includes a love story.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The belief that marriage is the answer to fulfillment is a common myth perpetuated by media and culture.
21:41 - 26:22 (04:41)
Summary
The belief that marriage is the answer to fulfillment is a common myth perpetuated by media and culture. However, it's important to realize that personal fulfillment cannot solely come from a partner and must be pursued individually.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The purpose of a relationship is to contribute to each other's happiness and have a supportive partnership, while unions serve the purpose of walking together towards a common goal.
26:23 - 29:14 (02:51)
Summary
The purpose of a relationship is to contribute to each other's happiness and have a supportive partnership, while unions serve the purpose of walking together towards a common goal.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The CEO of Franklin Entertainment discusses navigating parental expectations and compatibility in love, in the context of producing faith-based romantic comedies.
29:15 - 33:42 (04:27)
Summary
The CEO of Franklin Entertainment discusses navigating parental expectations and compatibility in love, in the context of producing faith-based romantic comedies.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Devon Still shares his experience of being labeled "Mr.
33:43 - 37:35 (03:52)
Summary
Devon Still shares his experience of being labeled "Mr. Perfect" as a football player and how it impacted his communication with others. He emphasizes the importance of navigating and communicating expectations effectively, which is a central theme of his book.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Just because someone loves you, does not mean they know how to fulfill all of your needs and expectations.
37:35 - 42:28 (04:52)
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Just because someone loves you, does not mean they know how to fulfill all of your needs and expectations. Self-love and self-care are crucial to building a strong and sustainable relationship.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The reason people can't move forward with their stories is usually because something is wrong with it.
42:28 - 48:44 (06:16)
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The reason people can't move forward with their stories is usually because something is wrong with it. Additionally, people often seek relationships because they want someone to contribute and meet their needs.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker discusses the importance of showing wise compassion towards friends by being there for them in a vulnerable place and giving them tough love when needed, without making them feel right or wrong about their situation.
48:45 - 52:16 (03:30)
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The speaker discusses the importance of showing wise compassion towards friends by being there for them in a vulnerable place and giving them tough love when needed, without making them feel right or wrong about their situation.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The stigma around negative emotions, like sadness, anxiety, and anger, can cause individuals to suppress these feelings rather than acknowledging and addressing them.
52:17 - 54:45 (02:27)
Summary
The stigma around negative emotions, like sadness, anxiety, and anger, can cause individuals to suppress these feelings rather than acknowledging and addressing them. Acknowledging negative emotions is a crucial step towards emotional intelligence and growth.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker emphasizes the importance of taking care of yourself through eating healthy and exercising, which helps you feel alive and avoid negative emotions, and also discussing the psychological immune system.
54:45 - 58:24 (03:38)
Summary
The speaker emphasizes the importance of taking care of yourself through eating healthy and exercising, which helps you feel alive and avoid negative emotions, and also discussing the psychological immune system.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Psychologist Dr. Mary Ann Cohen explains how our childhood experiences and emotions can impact our relationships as adults, and why it's important to reflect on and work through them in order to build healthier relationships in the future.
58:25 - 1:03:01 (04:36)
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Psychologist Dr. Mary Ann Cohen explains how our childhood experiences and emotions can impact our relationships as adults, and why it's important to reflect on and work through them in order to build healthier relationships in the future.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker speaks about how the power of grace can change people's lives and help them to overcome their faults and limitations.
1:03:01 - 1:06:44 (03:42)
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The speaker speaks about how the power of grace can change people's lives and help them to overcome their faults and limitations.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker talks about how bringing shame to light and being surrounded by a community that will not judge you is important for healing.
1:06:44 - 1:11:07 (04:23)
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The speaker talks about how bringing shame to light and being surrounded by a community that will not judge you is important for healing. Networking based on success should be replaced with insulation for people to open up and heal.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The guest speaker discusses how jealousy can be a common emotion felt among people as they see others succeed in life, and how it can be important to acknowledge and overcome it in order to focus on one's own personal growth.
1:11:08 - 1:17:30 (06:21)
Summary
The guest speaker discusses how jealousy can be a common emotion felt among people as they see others succeed in life, and how it can be important to acknowledge and overcome it in order to focus on one's own personal growth.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Pastor Michael Todd shares his thoughts on the illusion of success and how running in several lanes may not lead to fulfillment.
1:17:30 - 1:21:49 (04:18)
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Pastor Michael Todd shares his thoughts on the illusion of success and how running in several lanes may not lead to fulfillment. He also talks about the challenges of being a pastor and dealing with the pressure of bringing in money for the church.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The focus on helping others and preparing oneself is the key to achieving financial success and blessings, according to the speaker.
1:21:49 - 1:25:10 (03:21)
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The focus on helping others and preparing oneself is the key to achieving financial success and blessings, according to the speaker. Preparation plays a crucial role in getting ready for the big opportunities in life.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The key to success is not solely focusing on becoming rich, but providing value to others.
1:25:10 - 1:29:47 (04:36)
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The key to success is not solely focusing on becoming rich, but providing value to others. Relationship expert Matthew Hussey shares factors to help individuals become a more desirable partner.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Feeling a true connection with someone can evaporate existential loneliness and bring incredible joy to your life.
1:29:47 - 1:37:47 (08:00)
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Feeling a true connection with someone can evaporate existential loneliness and bring incredible joy to your life. Building a relationship based on internal security can also give you the energy to go out and do amazing things.
Episode5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The importance of questioning everything and keeping an open mind in relationships is discussed, along with providing wisdom and tools to navigate the challenges that come with them.
1:37:47 - 1:43:58 (06:10)
Summary
The importance of questioning everything and keeping an open mind in relationships is discussed, along with providing wisdom and tools to navigate the challenges that come with them.