Episode
#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
1:22:45
Published: Mon Oct 29 2018
Description
Relationships 101 landed in the Top 50 Chart Worldwide on Apple Podcasts, and now it's time for the sequel. Jonny & Yusef join me today as we use our successes & tragedies in dating to establish some principles & strategies to optimise relationships, maximise happiness and avoid heartbreak (where possible). Expect to learn why "seeing" someone is a no man's land of emotional turmoil, why we all believe that the truth is a super power and why the first 6 weeks of a relationship are the most crucial. Check out everything I recommend from books to products and help support the podcast at no extra cost to you by shopping through this link - https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/modernwisdom - Get in touch. Join the discussion with me and other like minded listeners in the episode comments on the MW YouTube Channel or message me... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/ModernWisdomPodcast Email: https://www.chriswillx.com/contact
Chapters
The podcast discusses the key principles of establishing and maintaining a successful relationship with a focus on setting the tone correctly and the importance of truthfulness.
00:00 - 02:57 (02:57)
Summary
The podcast discusses the key principles of establishing and maintaining a successful relationship with a focus on setting the tone correctly and the importance of truthfulness. They also highlight a Q&A session with famous personalities as an upcoming event.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
The "no man's land of emotional turmoil" when "seeing someone" can be difficult for those used to being single and can quickly turn into a relationship.
02:57 - 06:44 (03:47)
Summary
The "no man's land of emotional turmoil" when "seeing someone" can be difficult for those used to being single and can quickly turn into a relationship. The line between friends with benefits and "seeing someone" is easily blurred.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
Many people think that non-committal relationships are a best of both worlds scenario where they can have companionship and freedom, but in reality, it can lead to feelings of guilt and anxiety.
06:44 - 10:05 (03:21)
Summary
Many people think that non-committal relationships are a best of both worlds scenario where they can have companionship and freedom, but in reality, it can lead to feelings of guilt and anxiety. It's important to make a commitment and give the relationship a label rather than live in a gray area of uncertainty.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
In this excerpt, the speaker discusses how to maintain a strong relationship and who to be in a relationship with.
10:05 - 12:22 (02:17)
Summary
In this excerpt, the speaker discusses how to maintain a strong relationship and who to be in a relationship with.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker discusses the relevance of age differences in relationships, questioning whether men are more attracted to younger women as they have less in common as they age.
12:22 - 19:39 (07:16)
Summary
The speaker discusses the relevance of age differences in relationships, questioning whether men are more attracted to younger women as they have less in common as they age.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
The psychology of male attraction can be seen in the way images of women are carefully arranged to elicit desire, as seen in FHM and Nuts and Zoo magazines.
19:39 - 26:51 (07:11)
Summary
The psychology of male attraction can be seen in the way images of women are carefully arranged to elicit desire, as seen in FHM and Nuts and Zoo magazines.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
The hosts discuss the idea of ranking people based on their attributes such as physical appearance and personality using a scoring system.
26:51 - 31:13 (04:22)
Summary
The hosts discuss the idea of ranking people based on their attributes such as physical appearance and personality using a scoring system.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker suggests that personal preferences, such as holiday destinations, interior design, and restaurants, are more important than arbitrary criteria for finding a partner.
31:13 - 35:51 (04:38)
Summary
The speaker suggests that personal preferences, such as holiday destinations, interior design, and restaurants, are more important than arbitrary criteria for finding a partner. By focusing on these preferences rather than loyalty or other factors, one may find a better match for them.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
In a fitness seminar with Eric Helms, a passerby received a piece of relationship advice that shattered the cliché fairy tale type of relationship: it's not all about the I'm in love with this person.'
35:51 - 39:02 (03:11)
Summary
In a fitness seminar with Eric Helms, a passerby received a piece of relationship advice that shattered the cliché fairy tale type of relationship: it's not all about the I'm in love with this person.'
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
This podcast episode explores how people tend to choose partners with similar backgrounds and how desirability can impact a relationship.
39:02 - 44:25 (05:23)
Summary
This podcast episode explores how people tend to choose partners with similar backgrounds and how desirability can impact a relationship. It also touches upon how effort and compatibility can affect the success of a relationship.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
Setting high expectations at the beginning of a relationship is important to avoid settling for less.
44:25 - 51:29 (07:03)
Summary
Setting high expectations at the beginning of a relationship is important to avoid settling for less. It's like starting a marathon at a fast pace to stay motivated.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
The podcast discusses different personality types and their attitudes towards relationships, sex, and career.
51:29 - 55:30 (04:01)
Summary
The podcast discusses different personality types and their attitudes towards relationships, sex, and career. Realists focus on career and are not romanticizing their life, while those who don't prioritize sex may engage in it early in a relationship without considering it significant.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
In a business partnership, it's important to remember that there may be minor conflicts like disagreements over small things, but in the end, it's just professional problem-solving to reach a shared view of where the business should go.
55:30 - 1:01:16 (05:45)
Summary
In a business partnership, it's important to remember that there may be minor conflicts like disagreements over small things, but in the end, it's just professional problem-solving to reach a shared view of where the business should go. It's important to recognize that ego shouldn't override the shared goal in running the business.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker suggests several tips for maintaining a healthy relationship such as effective communication, active listening, and making time for each other's interests.
1:01:16 - 1:08:36 (07:20)
Summary
The speaker suggests several tips for maintaining a healthy relationship such as effective communication, active listening, and making time for each other's interests.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
A comparison of how relationships and businesses can be similar, and how the work ethic of thinking like an artist and working like an accountant applies to both.
1:08:36 - 1:12:45 (04:09)
Summary
A comparison of how relationships and businesses can be similar, and how the work ethic of thinking like an artist and working like an accountant applies to both.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
The speaker discusses how regular communication in relationships about sexual intimacy can help overcome difficulties, and how becoming immune to tough conversations can make it easier to talk things out.
1:12:45 - 1:16:12 (03:27)
Summary
The speaker discusses how regular communication in relationships about sexual intimacy can help overcome difficulties, and how becoming immune to tough conversations can make it easier to talk things out.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
The practice of tantra focuses on building intimacy and physical connection between partners through breathing exercises and energy circulation.
1:16:13 - 1:18:42 (02:28)
Summary
The practice of tantra focuses on building intimacy and physical connection between partners through breathing exercises and energy circulation. By doing so, couples can enhance their normal sex life and improve the connection with each other.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
In this podcast, the host emphasizes the importance of using shared calendars for better organization and scheduling.
1:18:42 - 1:20:27 (01:45)
Summary
In this podcast, the host emphasizes the importance of using shared calendars for better organization and scheduling. She also mentions the benefits of having weekly reminders to help stay on track.
Episode#036 - Relationships 102 - How To Find & Maintain A Happy Relationship
PodcastModern Wisdom
John Peterson suggests that if someone is constantly facing failed relationships and rejection, they may need to evaluate themselves as the problem.
1:20:28 - 1:22:30 (02:02)
Summary
John Peterson suggests that if someone is constantly facing failed relationships and rejection, they may need to evaluate themselves as the problem.