Episode
994 Secrets of Attraction, Dangers of Sex, and Keys to Finding THE ONE w/Stephan Speaks
1:30:17
Published: Mon Aug 17 2020
Description
"Society has brainwashed us to believe that love and identifying it takes time. That’s a lie."Lewis is joined by relationship expert Stephan Labossiere, aka Stephan Speaks, to break down everything you need to know about love in 2020, from chemistry to connection to compatability. Whether you're looking to save a struggling relationship, meet someone new, or go to the next level with your partner, this conversation is for you.Stephan's first interview: http://lewishowes.com/730The Power of Erotic Intelligence with Esther Perel: https://link.chtbl.com/732-podFind Lasting Love with Matthew Hussey: https://link.chtbl.com/811-pod
Chapters
In this episode, the hosts discuss the differences between chemistry, compatibility, and connection, and reveal what men and women truly want in a relationship.
00:00 - 07:05 (07:05)
Summary
In this episode, the hosts discuss the differences between chemistry, compatibility, and connection, and reveal what men and women truly want in a relationship. Stefan Speaks helps empower people to find love and overcome challenges in their relationships, which can be especially challenging during times like 2020.
Episode994 Secrets of Attraction, Dangers of Sex, and Keys to Finding THE ONE w/Stephan Speaks
PodcastThe School of Greatness
By understanding and accepting what the opposite gender desires in a partner, individuals can see greater success in their relationships.
07:05 - 14:24 (07:18)
Summary
By understanding and accepting what the opposite gender desires in a partner, individuals can see greater success in their relationships. It is important to make adjustments, such as taking on a financial leadership role or designating a day without discussing issues, in order to find happiness.
Episode994 Secrets of Attraction, Dangers of Sex, and Keys to Finding THE ONE w/Stephan Speaks
PodcastThe School of Greatness
This podcast explores the idea of how much time it takes to know if someone could be "the one" and how spiritual intuition plays a role in identifying a potential life partner.
14:24 - 18:27 (04:03)
Summary
This podcast explores the idea of how much time it takes to know if someone could be "the one" and how spiritual intuition plays a role in identifying a potential life partner.
Episode994 Secrets of Attraction, Dangers of Sex, and Keys to Finding THE ONE w/Stephan Speaks
PodcastThe School of Greatness
In order to have a vulnerable and healthy connection with someone, you must first heal and have a level of confidence.
18:27 - 23:18 (04:51)
Summary
In order to have a vulnerable and healthy connection with someone, you must first heal and have a level of confidence. People who have not healed tend to go back to their exes due to feeling safer and less vulnerable.
Episode994 Secrets of Attraction, Dangers of Sex, and Keys to Finding THE ONE w/Stephan Speaks
PodcastThe School of Greatness
It is important to have fully healed or at least started the process of healing before getting back into the dating game.
23:18 - 28:02 (04:43)
Summary
It is important to have fully healed or at least started the process of healing before getting back into the dating game. While it may be appropriate in some cases to send a letter, focus on the healing journey before re-entering the dating world.
Episode994 Secrets of Attraction, Dangers of Sex, and Keys to Finding THE ONE w/Stephan Speaks
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Our inner dialogue and the words we use can impact the energy we emit when it comes to finding the right partner.
28:02 - 31:49 (03:47)
Summary
Our inner dialogue and the words we use can impact the energy we emit when it comes to finding the right partner. It's important to be positive and optimistic, and believe that good men exist and you deserve to find one.
Episode994 Secrets of Attraction, Dangers of Sex, and Keys to Finding THE ONE w/Stephan Speaks
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Online dating provides a convenient tool to meet people and is especially crucial during times of limited in-person interactions, but it is important to eliminate negative stigmas and assumptions associated with it.
31:49 - 38:44 (06:55)
Summary
Online dating provides a convenient tool to meet people and is especially crucial during times of limited in-person interactions, but it is important to eliminate negative stigmas and assumptions associated with it.
Episode994 Secrets of Attraction, Dangers of Sex, and Keys to Finding THE ONE w/Stephan Speaks
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The key to a successful opening line on dating apps is to reference something in the woman's profile to show you have actually read it.
38:44 - 44:21 (05:36)
Summary
The key to a successful opening line on dating apps is to reference something in the woman's profile to show you have actually read it. But ultimately, if she's attracted to you and likes your profile, a simple greeting should suffice.
Episode994 Secrets of Attraction, Dangers of Sex, and Keys to Finding THE ONE w/Stephan Speaks
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The podcast discusses the difference between connection, chemistry, and compatibility.
44:21 - 49:10 (04:48)
Summary
The podcast discusses the difference between connection, chemistry, and compatibility. While friends or matchmakers may see a connection between two people, it's important to also consider compatibility and chemistry when thinking about a potential relationship or partnership.
Episode994 Secrets of Attraction, Dangers of Sex, and Keys to Finding THE ONE w/Stephan Speaks
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The podcast discusses how compatibility and chemistry are both important in a relationship.
49:10 - 56:07 (06:57)
Summary
The podcast discusses how compatibility and chemistry are both important in a relationship. It is possible to have a strong connection with someone who has low compatibility, but a balance needs to be found in order to make the relationship work.
Episode994 Secrets of Attraction, Dangers of Sex, and Keys to Finding THE ONE w/Stephan Speaks
PodcastThe School of Greatness
A discussion on building relationships with others, including first date sex taboo and the evolution of online dating, concluding with a notable example from the Tyson Meats company.
56:07 - 59:31 (03:23)
Summary
A discussion on building relationships with others, including first date sex taboo and the evolution of online dating, concluding with a notable example from the Tyson Meats company.
Episode994 Secrets of Attraction, Dangers of Sex, and Keys to Finding THE ONE w/Stephan Speaks
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker shares his experience with a woman he had a great sexual attraction with but no instant connection, and emphasizes the importance of following the heart's desire when it comes to dating and relationships.
59:31 - 1:05:26 (05:55)
Summary
The speaker shares his experience with a woman he had a great sexual attraction with but no instant connection, and emphasizes the importance of following the heart's desire when it comes to dating and relationships.
Episode994 Secrets of Attraction, Dangers of Sex, and Keys to Finding THE ONE w/Stephan Speaks
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker discusses the importance of self-love and gives five practices that can help elevate one's relationship with oneself and increase self-worth.
1:05:26 - 1:13:38 (08:12)
Summary
The speaker discusses the importance of self-love and gives five practices that can help elevate one's relationship with oneself and increase self-worth. The topic of whether self-love can be a bad thing in relationships is also explored.
Episode994 Secrets of Attraction, Dangers of Sex, and Keys to Finding THE ONE w/Stephan Speaks
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker discusses what self-love truly means and shares healthy ways to practice it, such as starting the day with a smile and taking care of oneself mentally and emotionally rather than just physically.
1:13:38 - 1:18:21 (04:43)
Summary
The speaker discusses what self-love truly means and shares healthy ways to practice it, such as starting the day with a smile and taking care of oneself mentally and emotionally rather than just physically.
Episode994 Secrets of Attraction, Dangers of Sex, and Keys to Finding THE ONE w/Stephan Speaks
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The same principles of listening and effective communication can be applied across various types of relationships, including romantic partnerships, family members, friends, colleagues, and business relationships.
1:18:21 - 1:25:36 (07:14)
Summary
The same principles of listening and effective communication can be applied across various types of relationships, including romantic partnerships, family members, friends, colleagues, and business relationships. However, it is important to recognize that each relationship may require some adjustments in communication and approach.
Episode994 Secrets of Attraction, Dangers of Sex, and Keys to Finding THE ONE w/Stephan Speaks
PodcastThe School of Greatness
This podcast episode discusses the importance of finding a partner who aligns with your purpose and walks with you on your journey, and how to achieve a fulfilling relationship.
1:25:36 - 1:30:08 (04:31)
Summary
This podcast episode discusses the importance of finding a partner who aligns with your purpose and walks with you on your journey, and how to achieve a fulfilling relationship.