Episode
#285 - The Freemans - How To Have Better Arguments With Your Partner
57:39
Published: Sat Feb 20 2021
Description
Aaron and Jocelyn Freeman are relationship coaches and authors. Success in relationships can be as much to do with dealing with disagreements as finding common ground, so arguing well might actually be an important skill we need to develop. Expect to learn what an argument hangover is, how you can make a disagreement with your partner better before it's even begun, how you can turn conflict into a good thing, why emotional triggers are a danger and much more... Sponsors: Get 20% discount & free shipping on your Lawnmower 3.0 at https://www.manscaped.com/ (use code MODERNWISDOM) Extra Stuff: Buy The Argument Hangover - https://amzn.to/3qtnleE Get Free Bonuses If You Preorder - https://theargumenthangover.com/ Follow The Freemans on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/meet_thefreemans Get my free Ultimate Life Hacks List to 10x your daily productivity → https://chriswillx.com/lifehacks/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch. Join the discussion with me and other like minded listeners in the episode comments on the MW YouTube Channel or message me... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/ModernWisdomPodcast Email: https://www.chriswillx.com/contact
Chapters
This podcast episode discusses how to avoid argument hangovers and make disagreements productive, how to turn conflict into a positive occurrence, and the dangers of emotional triggers.
00:00 - 02:45 (02:45)
Summary
This podcast episode discusses how to avoid argument hangovers and make disagreements productive, how to turn conflict into a positive occurrence, and the dangers of emotional triggers.
Episode#285 - The Freemans - How To Have Better Arguments With Your Partner
PodcastModern Wisdom
The importance of healthy conflict in relationships and how it can be used as an opportunity to grow and strengthen the relationship instead of leading to its demise is discussed.
02:45 - 07:32 (04:47)
Summary
The importance of healthy conflict in relationships and how it can be used as an opportunity to grow and strengthen the relationship instead of leading to its demise is discussed.
Episode#285 - The Freemans - How To Have Better Arguments With Your Partner
PodcastModern Wisdom
The host emphasizes on the importance of a team approach in relationships instead of a boxing match mindset to have a healthy one, where both partners take action together to overcome conflicts.
07:32 - 12:40 (05:08)
Summary
The host emphasizes on the importance of a team approach in relationships instead of a boxing match mindset to have a healthy one, where both partners take action together to overcome conflicts. They also discuss the significance of looking for a partner on the same page for self-development goals while also enjoying the superficial and fun things in a person's traits that we all love to find on dating apps.
Episode#285 - The Freemans - How To Have Better Arguments With Your Partner
PodcastModern Wisdom
In this episode, the speaker discusses how relationships can trigger individuals, causing them to grow and make important internal discoveries about themselves.
12:40 - 20:06 (07:25)
Summary
In this episode, the speaker discusses how relationships can trigger individuals, causing them to grow and make important internal discoveries about themselves. By acknowledging this and addressing it with a willingness to grow, partners can thrive in their relationship.
Episode#285 - The Freemans - How To Have Better Arguments With Your Partner
PodcastModern Wisdom
The biggest challenge in relationships is communication, and even after years of self-development, some couples still struggle to effectively communicate with each other without getting triggered by their partners' thoughts or actions.
20:06 - 24:21 (04:14)
Summary
The biggest challenge in relationships is communication, and even after years of self-development, some couples still struggle to effectively communicate with each other without getting triggered by their partners' thoughts or actions.
Episode#285 - The Freemans - How To Have Better Arguments With Your Partner
PodcastModern Wisdom
Different communication approaches are needed for different personality types, which can vary depending on the context or situation, such as work, family, friends, or romantic relationships.
24:21 - 28:59 (04:38)
Summary
Different communication approaches are needed for different personality types, which can vary depending on the context or situation, such as work, family, friends, or romantic relationships. It's beneficial to learn how to communicate with people who have a different personality type than your own.
Episode#285 - The Freemans - How To Have Better Arguments With Your Partner
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In this podcast, the speakers discuss how to identify and differentiate between important life choices and swift emotional reactions that may not be significant in the larger scheme of things.
28:59 - 33:39 (04:39)
Summary
In this podcast, the speakers discuss how to identify and differentiate between important life choices and swift emotional reactions that may not be significant in the larger scheme of things.
Episode#285 - The Freemans - How To Have Better Arguments With Your Partner
PodcastModern Wisdom
The peak end rule is the psychological phenomenon where we tend to remember the emotional peak and the end feelings of an experience.
33:39 - 38:53 (05:13)
Summary
The peak end rule is the psychological phenomenon where we tend to remember the emotional peak and the end feelings of an experience. This highlights how important it is to manage experiences in a way that the end is less uncomfortable to create positive memories.
Episode#285 - The Freemans - How To Have Better Arguments With Your Partner
PodcastModern Wisdom
Listening for the underlying emotion in our partner's words is crucial in having a successful relationship.
38:53 - 46:43 (07:49)
Summary
Listening for the underlying emotion in our partner's words is crucial in having a successful relationship. Truly empathizing with our partner means feeling what they feel and not just listening to their superficial answers.
Episode#285 - The Freemans - How To Have Better Arguments With Your Partner
PodcastModern Wisdom
Learn to handle a passive-aggressive partner by recognizing their patterns and calmly addressing them in a way that opens the door to direct communication.
46:44 - 50:26 (03:42)
Summary
Learn to handle a passive-aggressive partner by recognizing their patterns and calmly addressing them in a way that opens the door to direct communication. Encourage your partner to communicate openly and honestly instead of resorting to passive-aggressive behavior.
Episode#285 - The Freemans - How To Have Better Arguments With Your Partner
PodcastModern Wisdom
Taking responsibility and communicating openly about it might be the key to resolving conflicts in relationships, avoiding spirals of resentment and passive aggressiveness.
50:26 - 55:58 (05:32)
Summary
Taking responsibility and communicating openly about it might be the key to resolving conflicts in relationships, avoiding spirals of resentment and passive aggressiveness.
Episode#285 - The Freemans - How To Have Better Arguments With Your Partner
PodcastModern Wisdom
The key to improving relationships is to learn relationship skills, which can be gained by reading a book or following experts on social media.
55:58 - 57:37 (01:38)
Summary
The key to improving relationships is to learn relationship skills, which can be gained by reading a book or following experts on social media. In book promotion mode, the Argument Hangover offers several valuable preorder bonuses worth $200 to support the show and ensure its continuation.