Episode
The Science Behind What We Get Wrong About Relationships EP 1328
1:12:45
Published: Wed Oct 05 2022
Description
Eric Barker is the author of The Wall Street Journal bestseller “Barking Up the Wrong Tree,” which has sold over half a million copies and been translated into 19 languages. Eric is also a sought-after speaker, having given talks at MIT, the Aspen Ideas Festival, Google, the United States Military Central Command, and the Olympic Training Center. His new bestseller, “Plays Well with Others,” was released in May of 2022.In this episode you will learn,The importance of having uncomfortable conversations early in your relationships.Three questions to ask yourself before you commit to a relationship.How love and relationships have evolved over generations. The difference between loneliness and solitude. For more, go to lewishowes.com/13283 Ways to Become More Desirable In Relationships [MASTERCLASS] https://link.chtbl.com/1326-pod5 Relationship Mistakes You Must Avoid to Find Deeper Connection w/ Jay Shetty [AWKWARD THERAPY] https://link.chtbl.com/1322-podWhy Emotional Agility Is The Most Important Skill You Need To Know: https://link.chtbl.com/1297-pod
Chapters
Gautam Jayanthan shares insights on maintaining a lasting relationship by keeping the love alive, building a deeper connection by getting to know your partner, and addressing difficult issues to increase long-term relationship satisfaction.
00:00 - 04:45 (04:45)
Summary
Gautam Jayanthan shares insights on maintaining a lasting relationship by keeping the love alive, building a deeper connection by getting to know your partner, and addressing difficult issues to increase long-term relationship satisfaction.
EpisodeThe Science Behind What We Get Wrong About Relationships EP 1328
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Eli Finkel has found that the importance of marriage as a relationship has nearly doubled over the past 20 years.
04:45 - 09:13 (04:27)
Summary
Eli Finkel has found that the importance of marriage as a relationship has nearly doubled over the past 20 years. The best marriages today are the best marriages there have ever been because of a lack of formal rules and if you know what you want and you put in the work, you can create a custom script that works for both of you.
EpisodeThe Science Behind What We Get Wrong About Relationships EP 1328
PodcastThe School of Greatness
By using couples therapy to preemptively make agreements and communicate effectively, couples can avoid the stress of potentially relationship-damaging conflict down the line.
09:13 - 13:38 (04:25)
Summary
By using couples therapy to preemptively make agreements and communicate effectively, couples can avoid the stress of potentially relationship-damaging conflict down the line. Rather than using therapy to salvage a damaged relationship, couples can use therapy as a tool for prevention and maintenance.
EpisodeThe Science Behind What We Get Wrong About Relationships EP 1328
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Having uncomfortable conversations early on in a relationship is essential in order to establish trust, learn about each other's needs and values, and determine if the relationship is the right fit for both individuals.
13:38 - 25:43 (12:05)
Summary
Having uncomfortable conversations early on in a relationship is essential in order to establish trust, learn about each other's needs and values, and determine if the relationship is the right fit for both individuals.
EpisodeThe Science Behind What We Get Wrong About Relationships EP 1328
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker shares tips on how to build intimacy by starting small in conversation and letting other people open up at their own pace to find common values.
25:43 - 31:19 (05:35)
Summary
The speaker shares tips on how to build intimacy by starting small in conversation and letting other people open up at their own pace to find common values.
EpisodeThe Science Behind What We Get Wrong About Relationships EP 1328
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Scott Gerber explains how creating synergies, connecting people and building relationships intensify the impact of your network.
31:19 - 39:46 (08:27)
Summary
Scott Gerber explains how creating synergies, connecting people and building relationships intensify the impact of your network.
EpisodeThe Science Behind What We Get Wrong About Relationships EP 1328
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Seeing your partner as better than they are can lead to happier and more successful relationships in the long-term, as it boosts the signal of love and helps sustain feelings of true love.
39:46 - 44:15 (04:28)
Summary
Seeing your partner as better than they are can lead to happier and more successful relationships in the long-term, as it boosts the signal of love and helps sustain feelings of true love. Research shows that couples who maintain idealization are more likely to have successful marriages compared to those who have second thoughts.
EpisodeThe Science Behind What We Get Wrong About Relationships EP 1328
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Communication is essential to understand what someone wants to achieve and how to help them get there.
44:15 - 50:10 (05:55)
Summary
Communication is essential to understand what someone wants to achieve and how to help them get there. It's important to bridge the gap by getting to know their goals and values to ensure alignment with your own.
EpisodeThe Science Behind What We Get Wrong About Relationships EP 1328
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The speaker discusses the significance of individuals speaking up about any concerns they have within a group or organization, as well as the relationship between adversity and emotions.
50:10 - 54:31 (04:21)
Summary
The speaker discusses the significance of individuals speaking up about any concerns they have within a group or organization, as well as the relationship between adversity and emotions. Additionally, they mention a study that shows some people's brains look similar to those who are newly in love when put in an MRI scanner.
EpisodeThe Science Behind What We Get Wrong About Relationships EP 1328
PodcastThe School of Greatness
The power of gratitude and face-to-face communication in relationships can lead to deeper connections and happier experiences.
54:31 - 1:03:32 (09:00)
Summary
The power of gratitude and face-to-face communication in relationships can lead to deeper connections and happier experiences. However, it’s important to navigate the use of social media wisely in order to maintain a healthy intimate relationship.
EpisodeThe Science Behind What We Get Wrong About Relationships EP 1328
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Money is a significant factor in relationships as it is a measure of importance.
1:03:32 - 1:09:49 (06:16)
Summary
Money is a significant factor in relationships as it is a measure of importance. The stability of roles and responsibilities agreed upon by partners is necessary amidst the freedom to change and express individuality.
EpisodeThe Science Behind What We Get Wrong About Relationships EP 1328
PodcastThe School of Greatness
Eric discusses the importance of not regretting things, doing more instead of less, and showing gratitude as ways to create a happy and meaningful life.
1:09:49 - 1:12:20 (02:31)
Summary
Eric discusses the importance of not regretting things, doing more instead of less, and showing gratitude as ways to create a happy and meaningful life.