Episode
The Side Piece Ep. 03
1:07:56
Published: Thu Mar 23 2023
Description
Todays topicsBig Decisions and how we make them, ValidationDefault Settings, and more BPD
Chapters
The host welcomes listeners to the show and discusses his scattered thought process, ultimately introducing the name of the podcast as "The Side Piece."
00:00 - 00:44 (00:44)
Summary
The host welcomes listeners to the show and discusses his scattered thought process, ultimately introducing the name of the podcast as "The Side Piece."
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The speaker discusses how in their relationship, their partner enjoys making the final decisions while they prefer not to, especially when it comes to big decisions that cause them anxiety.
00:44 - 05:20 (04:35)
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The speaker discusses how in their relationship, their partner enjoys making the final decisions while they prefer not to, especially when it comes to big decisions that cause them anxiety.
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This podcast episode discusses the importance of prioritizing financially responsible decision making in relationships to avoid negative consequences and ensure stability.
05:20 - 11:16 (05:55)
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This podcast episode discusses the importance of prioritizing financially responsible decision making in relationships to avoid negative consequences and ensure stability.
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The speaker is looking to move to Tennessee and needs a storage unit, which they are tasking someone else with finding and getting the price for, as they continue to focus on other aspects of their life.
11:16 - 14:46 (03:30)
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The speaker is looking to move to Tennessee and needs a storage unit, which they are tasking someone else with finding and getting the price for, as they continue to focus on other aspects of their life.
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A lack of communication can cause power imbalances and affect decision-making in a relationship.
14:46 - 19:25 (04:38)
Summary
A lack of communication can cause power imbalances and affect decision-making in a relationship. It is crucial to discuss decisions together and trust each other before taking actions such as purchasing storage units or cars.
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The speaker discusses the importance of finding a common ground in decision making and using past experiences to approach current relationships in a healthy way.
19:25 - 22:12 (02:47)
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The speaker discusses the importance of finding a common ground in decision making and using past experiences to approach current relationships in a healthy way.
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The speaker discusses an instance where their significant other had the final say in decision making and highlights the importance of making the other person feel validated and comfortable.
22:12 - 26:40 (04:28)
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The speaker discusses an instance where their significant other had the final say in decision making and highlights the importance of making the other person feel validated and comfortable.
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When bringing up feelings of neglect in a relationship, it's important to validate your partner's anger and try to understand where they're coming from.
26:40 - 30:09 (03:28)
Summary
When bringing up feelings of neglect in a relationship, it's important to validate your partner's anger and try to understand where they're coming from. Even if you feel their emotions are invalid, anger is often the root of other emotions and should be acknowledged.
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This podcast episode offers help to men who are feeling the strain of being away from their partners too much.
30:09 - 33:24 (03:15)
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This podcast episode offers help to men who are feeling the strain of being away from their partners too much. It advises them to validate their partner's feelings and open up about their own desires for validation in order to improve the situation.
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The importance of communicating clearly in relationships is highlighted through an example of addressing hurt feelings, rather than frustration, and avoiding potential misunderstandings in the future.
33:24 - 38:15 (04:50)
Summary
The importance of communicating clearly in relationships is highlighted through an example of addressing hurt feelings, rather than frustration, and avoiding potential misunderstandings in the future.
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The constant sharing of relationship TikToks can create a false narrative and cause people to start bashing and judging the partners involved, causing real-life turmoil.
38:15 - 40:28 (02:12)
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The constant sharing of relationship TikToks can create a false narrative and cause people to start bashing and judging the partners involved, causing real-life turmoil. While staged videos may seem harmless, they can perpetuate negative stereotypes and behaviors.
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Communication is key in any relationship.
40:28 - 42:53 (02:24)
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Communication is key in any relationship. Being able to verbalize your needs and validate your partner's needs can eliminate guesswork and prevent misunderstandings.
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The speaker shares their perspective on the power of apologizing and how it can change our perception of conflicts.
42:53 - 48:10 (05:17)
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The speaker shares their perspective on the power of apologizing and how it can change our perception of conflicts. Apologizing for the way someone feels and refraining from justifying ourselves can resolve conflicts more peacefully.
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In this podcast episode, the hosts discuss the communication tip of saying "I'm not looking for an argument" as a way to avoid misunderstandings and defuse potential conflicts during conversations.
48:10 - 51:30 (03:19)
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In this podcast episode, the hosts discuss the communication tip of saying "I'm not looking for an argument" as a way to avoid misunderstandings and defuse potential conflicts during conversations. This can help the listener to understand that the speaker just needs to express their feelings, instead of trying to start an argument.
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The speaker shares their personal experience on how labeling emotions and expressing them clearly can improve communication during difficult situations.
51:30 - 57:28 (05:57)
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The speaker shares their personal experience on how labeling emotions and expressing them clearly can improve communication during difficult situations.
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The speaker emphasizes the importance of giving oneself a break when feeling down and allowing some personal time.
57:28 - 1:01:13 (03:45)
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The speaker emphasizes the importance of giving oneself a break when feeling down and allowing some personal time. In a relationship, it's better to communicate one's feelings and ask for what they need when dealing with a bad day.
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Teaching experienced tattoo artists can be difficult due to the need to break bad habits and teach new techniques on top of unlearning old ones.
1:01:13 - 1:07:03 (05:49)
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Teaching experienced tattoo artists can be difficult due to the need to break bad habits and teach new techniques on top of unlearning old ones.
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The podcast hosts wrap up with a quote from Ronnie Coleman and encourage viewers to support the channel through Super Chat or Patreon subscriptions, or by sharing with like-minded individuals.
1:07:03 - 1:07:51 (00:48)
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The podcast hosts wrap up with a quote from Ronnie Coleman and encourage viewers to support the channel through Super Chat or Patreon subscriptions, or by sharing with like-minded individuals.